Re: on the cost/benefits of optimism and pessimism.....
- From: abelard <abelard3@xxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Fri, 31 Aug 2007 21:45:05 +0200
On Fri, 31 Aug 2007 10:47:05 -0700, joblard@xxxxxxxxxxxx wrote:
On 31 Aug, 17:38, "DVH" <d...@xxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
"abelard" <abela...@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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http://metapsychology.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=book&id=37...
"The essence of the book lies in the investigation into whether
optimism is a healthy trait or not. The glib answer may well be that
it is obvious that it is. However, the actual results are much more
interesting. Given that eighty percent of people are moderately to
very optimistic, what does that imply for the daily lives of these
people? The author makes it clear that optimism is not simply a
positive outlook on life; optimism is also about what one actually
does. In other words, optimism is not about wearing rose-tinted
spectacles; it is about rolling up one's sleeves and trying to bring
into existence the ideals one holds. Putting that into practical
terms, the author shows how, when faced with a difficult university
course, a sixth of very optimistic students might drop out, a quarter
of the moderately optimistic students and a whopping third of the
pessimists. So that all looks cut and dried, doesn't it? It is not.
First of all, the author makes it plain that there are times when
giving up is the better option. She uses the example of a man trying
to get a date with a woman whom he finds very attractive. If she turns
him down the first time, it is most certainly worthwhile for him to
persevere and try for a second, third or fourth time. However, if he
has a restraining order against him forbidding him to contact the
woman, it is time to give up! In other words, there is a formula which
balances the possible costs against the possible chance of success. If
the woman has taken out a court order against him, the chances of her
granting him a date are infinitesimally small while, if he persists in
approaching her, his chances of landing up in prison are extremely
large. Even an optimist should bow out gracefully at this point."
"Marketing guru Seth Godin's latest book, The Dip, says there's no shame in
quitting when you're in a hopeless situation. If that sounds negative, it's
not. Godin just recommends setting high standards and to be the "best" in
your chosen field, or get out and do something else. "
http://www.brandweek.com/bw/news/spotlight/article_display.jsp?vnu_co...
"I did a gig in New York today about the Dip and it went really well.
Afterward, someone asked me a question about his new business.
I asked back, "if you accomplish that, will you be seen by your audience as
the best in the world, or will you be seen as doing your best?"
He didn't have to answer. He got it.
If you're doing your best, only your AYSO soccer coach cares. If you're the
best in the world, the market cares. The secret, if you have limited
resources (don't we all) is to make 'world' small enough that you can
actually accomplish that."
http://sethgodin.typepad.com/the_dip/2007/05/my_favorite_lin.html- Hide quoted text -
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These Americans management gurus do like to state the bleedin obvious
at great length, don't they?
how do you make that out when idiots like bliar and the clown just
keep pouring good taxes after bad projects?
or people keep using up life chasing the socialist nonsense
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