Re: i want to see how i do without them

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"...kez" <madeup@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
tonight i rang up my parents and cancelled them coming round for a
visit

i want to see how i do without them,
or at least seeing them less

for the past few months i've seen them every day
at some point i have to see them less,
to be my own person, maybe for the first time

Yes, you have to be your own person.
You have to make your own mistakes
rather than your parents' mistakes.

it's a sad feeling i have about them
i'm feeling loss already,
it's hard for me too, to let go

You are not removing them from your life.
But their role in your life has to change.
As has your role in their life.


Thomas

i'm having to let some friends go too
it sux

-- kez



OK, you're starting to worry me now... first your family then your
friends - are you feeling suicidal by any chance?

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