Re: Love



Chrissy <cv.spencer@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

serious post, how can I stop myself falling in love again?

Don't make the attempt. That'll lead to disaster. Better to work out
how to handle it better, I reckon.

really I'm
such a dim-wit, still loving the last bloke & now falling in love with
another on-line already & meeting a third on Friday.

Umm. Sounds like infatuation to me, that does.

Bloody ridiculous!

Not completely so, I don't think. Anyway, you're definitely an
attractive woman on-line[1], so I can see how this sort of thing happens
at least from the bloke's point of view.

I'm acting like a complete moron & must stop this
nonsense - "get thee to a nunnery"

I don't see why - why not try to manage things slightly more sensibly so
you can avoid whatever the problems are that you're getting?

No, really, any advice for a very foolish middle-aged woman?

I'm afraid not. What could I say? I've no idea at all what emotional
processes go on inside anyone except me, with a minor option on having a
faint clue with chaps of a similar background.

But: seems to me that you're suffering from a need of some sort, and
this tendency to get yourself infatuated is linked to it.

I can't be more specific than that, I'm afraid (at least, not without
being annoying and largely missing the point, I suspect). Maybe you can
figure it out?

Rowland.

[1] Point one: I'm admitting nothing. Point two: I'm *certain* I'm
right. And for anyone else: no, I've never met Chrissy, nor am I likely
to.

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