Re: Dont want to abondon friend but difficult to cope

B. wrote: 
How do you deal with a friend who misinterprets what you say and do?

Its starting to get me down a lot I really care for her and dont want her to feel even more isolated but I feel like I am on eggshells now.
I will say something which is taken the wrong way she gets upset & unhappy with me.

It seems she is getting more irrational and even trying to talk about things causes more problems as she thinks I say things to hurt her even though I dont mean it. Everything seems to be reinforcing her negatives and she cannot she other explanations.

I care about her too much to walk away but find it hard to cope with her perceptions of reality.

B. 

it's just as hard for her to see your perceptions of reality.
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