Re: Tracked him down - now what?

No I don't agree that a new partner should automatically take any
responsibility for Kids, I mean supposing the kid(s) were really bad,
dangerous or crazy or made his life a misery.

I think it's certainly an admirable thing to do but no way should they be
expected to accept full responsibility for the kids.

And if a father is neither paying nor taking anything to do with his kids
then he's not only a deadbeat but he's a right *** too. Different story
if he's being denied access or not seeing them now is the result of having
been denied access.

I won't comply with CSA but I do see, love and care for my kids, they want
for nothing, spend time with me, go on holiday with me. I contribute
directly to my kids, not my ex, not the government and I will almost
certainly be jailed by this government for doing this. They will say that
even although my son lived with me for almost the entire summer holiday I
should still have paid the government! Not fucking likely. Anyway to my way
of thinking it's one or the other, you either see your kids are ok or you
accept the governments demands I just take extreme objection to doing both
but anyone who does neither better have good reason or they indeed deadbeat
bastards.

Also if I am contributing to my kids, I would be shocked if I were expected
to also have to take financial responsibility for my partners kids all
because I have a relationship with their mother, so I can fully understand
the posters frustrations but consider how you feel about the kids if the NRP
were dead, might help relieve some of the frustration.


"redmelons" <red.melons@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
news:nemoWed082907061655@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
NACSA CHAIR <chairperson@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
So you've got his wife and children, and you want him to pay you
as well? Don't want much do you?

Thats a bit harsh?

Perhaps, but I do like to turn the tables occasionally from the usual
'stop moaning about paying for your kids'. I actually believe that if
you take on a new family, you accept full responsibility and don't
expect an ex-partner to subsidise your relationship. Why is that any
worse than expecting biological parents to pay when they may be
completely excluded from the children's lives?

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