Asexualization of Korean Males

This leads to a vehemently inflamatory and divisive issue. This would
not be limited to Korea but to mose Aisan countries as well, but based
on survey of U.S. cenesus bureau it is the Korean females who are most
likely to have white spouse amongst Asian ethnicities while it is the
Korean males who are likely to have Korean splouse. Based on research
and the survey by the bureau, the number is 50% of Korean females. It
leads to the statistical conclusion that half of Korean females choose
white spouse over Korean spouse, meaning Korean females are more likely
choose White male than Korean male. You say the real life is not
statistics? Maybe you're right. However, do the numbers lie?

This is a good thing for Korean females because they are not limited to
Korean males when choosing a mate, and this means there are plenty of
non-Korean males who want them, namely the Caucasians. This is a BIG
confidence booster for Korean females. Reflect that there have been
cases of famous non-Korean males who went to Korean to marry their
Korean brides which turn out to be a big media coverage at least in
Korea. This can be another way of Korean females to punish Korean
males for whatever reasons that may arise (I hope not though).

What does this do for Korean males? Harsh and tough reality. They
have to deal with new competition from the whites. (Who likes
competition?) If they complain or whine about the new competion, they
are vehemently charged with racism and sexism. Leaving plenty of
Korean guys to play with themselves, and leading to depression and even
as drastic as taking their own lives. (Not having a gir friend can
naturally make any guy depressed no matter what race or ethnicity the
guy is.) Imagine being told by a girl of your nationality that her
peers like males of another ethnicity better than your ethnicity. How
would that make you feel? I am a Koresan male, ands I had Korean girl
tell me that her peers and herself like white men more than Korean man.
These Korean girls may have been so white-washed, but I don't care a
rat's anus about that. ***Was it crime to have been born as a Korean
male?*** I didn't choose be born as a Korean male. Had I a choice, no
doubt I would have chosen to be born as a Caucasian male because they
are more popular than Korean or Aisan male. Being rejected by females
of your own ethnicity because of your ethnicity (which you were
choiceless about) is SO SAD AND PAINFUL. However, I am resigned to the
disavnatage about having been born as a Korean male, and I have stopped
caring. Caring about your choicelessness does not do me any good.

I don't dislike Caucasian males, and I am resigned to the fact that
life is not fair and does not treat anyone the same. Interracial
marriage or dating is not a wrong thing in spite of the disparity in
Aisan community. Let me leave you a few things to reflect about:
1) If half of Korean females leave Korean males for Caucasian males,
very very naturally Korea, as a whole both in Korea and in overseas
Korean communities, will regress and weaken. (If the marriage rate is
half, 50%, the dating rate would be even higher than that.)
2) Anyone, no matter what race or ethnicity, with enough common-sense,
life experience, and education will come to realise that endogamy is
most trouble-free. It is a common-sense that marriage or dating within
one's ethnicity is least likely to be pose problems and difficulties
down the road.
3) Korean males are not stupid (even though there are plenty of stupid
and non-sensical stereotypes about us). We're just as much as aware as
Caucasian males that being domineering or chauvinistic is no way to win
the hearts of ladies.
4) Why is that Black females' difficulty and frustration in finding a
mate has been covered in media, and books have been written about it,
but there has been no such coverage about Korean males' dilemma and
barrier?
5) Korean females need to understand that Korean males are seriously
hampered by diverse barriers in meeting non-Korean females. Such as
stereotypes, and need to learn the women's language while white men
don't really need to gain fluency in Korean language to date Korean
women. There are other reasons but that's why there aren't that many
Korean men with white women.

I am not saying that Korean women shouldn't marry Caucasian men. That
is not a wrong thing. However, it seems like it boils down to the
survival of the strongest/fittest. We Koreans have been invaded
countless times by foreign power throughout the history, and we are
still very much under the power of America which is driven mostly by
Caucasian males in 40s and 50s. Perhaps, we will just fade away in
history.

Please don't accuse me of sexism or racism. As a Korean man, I don't
hate Korean women because they think White men are hotter than Korean
men. Hate does me no good. Plus it's not worth it. Men's life span
is only 70 to 80.

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