Re: Cindy has severe hostility issues - I pray she has no kids!

On Feb 1, 10:19 pm, "whate...@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" <Jyeshta> wrote:
On Sun, 1 Feb 2009 21:11:14 -0800 (PST), Joe Bruno





<jbr...@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
On Feb 1, 8:58 pm, "whate...@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" <Jyeshta> wrote:
Is Cindy a convert, who's now unhappy in her marriage?  She seems
to be so full of pain, she attacks like a rabid dog.  And the
moderators have no problem with it, but won't let me come to my
own defense.
On Fri, 30 Jan 2009 21:01:24 +0000 (UTC), cindys
<cste...@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
You're making a sweeping generalization here and slinging mud at
groups of people whom you admit you don't know. Every person is an
individual. Many/most C Jews are quite assimilated and are universally
tolerant of R and secular Jews. Orthodox Jews are more variable. But
when you sling mud at entire groups of people, don't be surprised when
some of it bounces back on you. You say you have no desire to know C
or O Jews, yet you have been talking to both C and O Jews right along
on this newsgroup, and I have yet to see one single person demonstrate
intolerance toward your (or anybody else's) level of Jewish
observance.
Best regards,
---Cindy S.

When did I sling mud?  I only stated that if someone is going to
disapprove of me, I would rather not be personally acquainted
with hir.
Join the club. Might I make a suggestion to you?
Cindy is what we call a loose cannon. She blurts out whatever she
feels at the moment without any regard for
whether it is true or not and without regard who she insults. Combine
this with an extreme tendency to exagerrate
everything she sees and you have someone who cannot be taken
seriously.
She poses as a scholar of Judaism's holy books, but it's really
nothing but a pretense for being arrogant.
Have you ever seen her make a positive contribution to a discussion? I
haven't. She just jumps in to try and control people, to intimidate
the ones she dislikes and gain favor with the ones she considers her
friends.
Everything she posts is political bullshit, to control and manipulate
people.

Agreed.  What bothers me is that other posters seem to
unanimously agree with her, or are apologists for her - trying to
explain that her attacks are just due to 'someone's' "ambiguous
wording".

There was someone who operated almost exactly like she does on
the group I moderated - but at least most people saw her for what
she was.  She succeeded in breaking the group into factions, one
of which started their own group, now defunct.

But no one else seems to have a problem with her (aside from us)
- certainly not the moderators.

There is a lot of anger in her which just shoots out.  Instead of
her "taking time out from preparing her Shabos" to post a flame
on scjm, someone should ship her to the IDF with triple amounts
of ammo.  At least there maybe she'd do some good, if she could
remember she's not supposed to shoot her own squadron.- Hide quoted text -

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I was in the Navy for 6 years, the last 4 as an officer at sea.
I had, at one point, 110 men in my division. I had one seaman who
acted like her.
We tried standard discipline, but it had no effect. Finally, we saw no
alternative but an administrative discharge.

I don't see her as angry, though. I see her as a bratty child who
always has to be the center of attention and get everything her way.
I'm tired of her games, her ego trips and her endless obsession with
getting attention.
I've decided finally to simply stop reading her posts altogether.

She seems to really distress you more than she does me. I don't feel
at all threatened by her or her little clique.
I'm very good at ignoring people completely when I think it's
necessary.
I recommend it to you. There are groups I post in which are full of
irritating people like her.
In those, I simply post whatever info I have and move on without
discussing anything with any of them.,
You don't know any of those people personally. They mean nothing to
you. Don't feel obligated to answer their questions.or justify
anything you have done to them. In the end, the only one you need to
please is yourself.
.

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