Re: japanese death in the family...what is customary?





<zucca227@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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> My friend just had a death in his Japanese family. What is a customary
> gesture of sympathy?
>
> He's american and all, but bringing food just doesn't do it for me.

I'm not Japanese, but I have been to a Buddhist funeral of a
Japanese-American friend. There were Japanese mourners giving the family
money in special envelopes with thin black ribbons. Afterwards I found out
practice was called "Koden" and was the traditional Japanese condolence
gift.

Try a google search on "Japanese funeral Koden" for more information

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