Re: Cov Tub txawj Ntxhais Ntse SCH tuaj pab sau txog kev paub.
- From: Hmong-Lao <Hmlao_69@xxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Tue, 10 Aug 2010 07:07:03 -0700 (PDT)
On Aug 10, 8:13 am, Yaj Tshaj Koob <mutant_l...@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Ua ntej no kuv xav thov tas nrho sawv daws tuaj nrog sau kev paub rau
hauv 4 lub "Yis Laj" topic sau ntawv raws li hauv qab no pub kuv tau
xyaum.
1). Finding and Developing Leaders.
2). Status Leaders.
3). Something To Do, Your Life Style.
4). Habits Of Recreation And Exercise.
Nej sawv daws pab sau cov lus rau hauv qab ntawm "each topic" raws li
nyias lub tswv yim siab nyiam thiab xav. Tab sis sau raws li lub
ntsiab ntawm lib YIS LAJ ntawv, Los sis ua li Noogdlej thiab Hmong_lao
nkawd hais mus nrhiav qaij lwm qhov coj los tso rau los tau, ntawm kuv
tus kheej los kuj tsis pom leej twg yuav sau rau hauv internet qhov
twg li thiab nej pab mus research seb puas pom nyob rau qhov twg ho
coj tuaj sib qhia.
YTK
PY YTK,
Kuv thim 3 kaujruam rau koj lawm, tabsis koj nam 3 kauj ruam tuaj
thiab (click on the link for detail discussions).
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.hmong/browse_thread/thread/4fc04c244f479644/741f841b6b8fde88
Yog li ntawd, cia kuv muab koj cov tus no los tso rau peb sawvdaws tau
kawm yom. Kuv xav hais tias nyaj yuav nkag rau ib lub topic saum toj
no lawm thiab.
Tus sau yog Yaj Tshaj Koob.
"Hais txog kuv cov lus nug "questios" nqe 1 txog nqe 8 rau Hmoob-lao
thiab Noogdlej ob tug ntawd mas nkawm tsis muaj cuab kav teb tau raws
nraim kuv cov lus nug ib nqe li, txhais tau tias yog ob tug lam tau
lam hais tsis paub txog hlwb neeg lub tswv yim, paub tsis txog neeg
sau ntawv, paub tsis txog tus cuj pwm fai kev sib thom neeg, paub tsis
txog tus txwm ntawv tes tias yog leej twg sau, paub tsis txog lub cauj
lug kev sib tooj hlua saib seb yuav rhaus mus khi tau leej twg, tsis
paub txog lub niam tswv yim yuav muab qhov dub ntxeev tau mus ua
dawb, muab qhov dawb ntxeev mus ua tau dub, twb tsis paub los hais
tias paub, twb tsis pom los hais tias pom, ua neeg tsis txhob mus
xyaum hais tej lus uas luag nug rov qab rau yus ces yus teb tsis tau
luag li ntawd. Peb yuav tau tsis txhob qaug cawv hais lus, Drugs
talking, not impossible way, it is important to recognize that this
may become a problem for other people, and sometimes most
unexpectedly."
Kuv sob lus luv luv uas kuv tau hais nyob rau lwm tsab post tau ua rau
koj nyhav siab. Kuv, HL tau hais li no: "Tos py noogdlej critics koj
os". Sob lus no yog hais rau phoojywg Yajtshajkoob cov lus nram no:
"John,
Good family relationships are essential to making adjustments when
people begin raising their own family in later years.
It is inevitable, in a home, that the parents must control many
situations. Someone has to say "no" on many occasions, and it is the
responsibility of the parents to assume this authority. Children know
this, but they often have difficulty accepting it. In recommendation
of most psychologists today emphasizes that parents must definitely
show the children what the limits of freedom are, and stick to it. In
other words the parents cannot abdicate their responsibility without
expecting to have considerable trouble. At the same time, it is
necessary for parents to listen to their children and try to
understand what it is they are seeking. They must also understand that
family management is not easy and there will be times when they just
can't be permissive pals and at the same time maintain the authority
which is their responsibility. Children must learn that this is
essential in family life. They must learn to accept the authority
which is needed. Usually discussion is necessary to show the limits
and lines of responsibility, and it is generally better than arbitrary
commands.
Some studies have shown that there is not as much hostility between
teen-agers and their parents as one would sometimes imagine. Something
over 70 percent, polls have shown, of teen-agers questioned, feel that
their parents are doing a good job of managing things, and would turn
to them for advice and help if problems arose. This is true even
though on particular issues there might be strong disagreement.
It has definitely been shown that teen-agers hope their parents will
set limits as to what they are allowed to do, and are in fact
disappointed if they do not do so. Many a 16 or 17 year old daughter
has appreciated a definite rule on where she may go or what time she
must be home from a date, because it strengthens her own position and
is a support when pressures are brought from the outside.
As a matter of fact, teen-agers desperately want boundaries. They know
they need clearly defined limits within which it is safe to function.
They realize their uncertainty and confusion and look to adults to
keep them from getting too far out of line. They are often relieved
when their parents step in and redirect them before they go too far.
They feel safe and secure when responsible adults care enough about
them to protect them from the danger around and within each of them,
parents will make a rule model for the children.
YTK
"
Yog koj siab tsis tau kaj li los kuv mam ua twg zoo piav kom ntxaws
ntxaws txog kuv qhov judgement los tau.
HL
.
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