Re: Hmong parents are selling off beauties, the frustration of Hmong Lao bachelors.

On Aug 3, 9:44 am, vimhlub <vimh...@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Many young Hmong men in Laos have gloomy prospects of finding
beautiful wives.  Why?  All the beautiful ones are taken by people
outside of the country, whether by Americans, Australians, or French.
If this trend continues, there would no longer be "beautiful" Hmong in
Laos.  What "ugly" mothers would produce "beautiful" children?  This
is a concern among young Hmong men in Laos today.

When I was traveling in Laos, I befriended several young Hmong college
men.  All their thoughts on life were the same -- they cannot compete
with old, pot-bellied men from outside of Laos for the Hmong
beauties.  So, they had to settle for left-overs.  What they do not
know is that pretty soon, Hmong men from outside of Laos would stop
going to Laos to find wives because the girls there (born from left-
overs) would not be able to compete with the beauties outside of
Laos?  Should that be the case, the Hmong in Laos will sink into
poverty due to the stoppage in flow of cash from pot-bellied men in
France, Australia, and the US.

Whose fault is it?  The Hmong parents in Laos's desire for quick
cash?  The lack of means in Hmong Lao bachelors?  Or the hawkish
taking of Hmong beauties in Laos using money as a leverage?

"Beautiful" Hmong women must be in shortage these days in Laos because
Hmong men there just can't find any waiting to be pluck from their
parents. Furthermore, it has to be the fault of pot-bellied married
men from France, the United States and Australia and the parents of
those beauty in question fault for such shortage. At long last, we
have to contrive to deal with "ugly" left-over and of course that just
cannot do because beauty is what we all look for in a woman. After
all, that is what is at stake here no more beauty to lure the pot-
bellied married men and no more cash for the parents.
Stop! My I about peed in my pants laughing so hard at this post. What
are the points of this post? Is it to degrade Hmong women regardless
of their "beauty"? To shed light on the human trafficking of daughters
by poor parents? The heartaches of lonely Hmong guys who dream of
scoring/marrying a beautiful wife but now has only left-over to
choose.
My I have to say that those left-over women must be having a field day
and euphoric because they just score big time. The prized of a fine
young man whose lot in life is to only get a "beautiful" wife. It
matters not whether these fine young men are handsome, or just ugly
left over themselves. We must feel sorry for these men and stop the
shortage. Why the ugly left-over woman should just be glad that they
are mentioned at all. And yes, we must find fault with this because
the fine young Hmong men won't be able to procreated with beauties and
the whole Hmong population in Laos will decline as a direct result.

"What "ugly" mothers would produce "beautiful" children? This is a
concern among young Hmong men in Laos today." If that is the concern
of the Hmong men in Laos then I am so glad that they are deprave. Such
pathetic notions is beyond me to even understand nor care to because
that statement alone shows me that whoever is in that group of people
deserve all the bad tidings their way. Please look at yourself before
you ask and state such a stupid, sexist, and childish remark.

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