Re: Hmoob tsis vam meej vim txiv neej Hmoob lub siab
- From: "30Xyoo" <thirtyrefugees@xxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: 30 Mar 2006 15:34:25 -0800
Zoo Niam Tsev,
Qhov ib, koj lub be xwb twb txhais tau tias tus kheej kiag twb tsis ua
zoo xav ua zoo xaiv mam ti be rau yus tus kheej. Xyov koj yuav yog niam
los txiv tsev. Qhov tseeb ces peb Hmoob yeej ib txwv tsis khav theeb.
Tiam sis koj twb xaiv tau lub meej mom Zoo Niam Tsev lawm ces nrog koj
hu thiab zoo siab rau koj.
Nram no kuv xav teb koj tsab email thiab koj cov lus posted:
1. Muaj poj niam lawm los tseem mus yuav niam yau thiab. Mus txog
Nplog teb thiab Thaib teb los tseem mus deev thiab yuav tej me nyuam
ntxhais 12-13 xyoos xwb.
a. Qhov nov kuv chim rau cov ua niam, cov ua muam, & cov ua ntxhais ua
tso cai thiab kam yuav tus neeg loj leeb tshuaj khib tsis qab ntsev
ntawv.
b. Peb cov laus ntshaw nqaij noj ib pluag xwb lawv tseem xam tsis tau
txog txhiab plua lawm yam tom ntej....li no peb noob neej Hmoob thiaj
li poob qab ua luaj....
c. Peb Hmoob yeej tsis kam ua dhau cov laus....txoj kev poj ua cia yawm
ua tseg yog ib txog kev txo peb Hmoob loj tshaj.
2. Thaum ob niam txiv muaj lus tsis sib haum xeeb ces khav muab tus
poj niam ntaus kom nyoo kiag xwb. Yog tus poj niam noj taus thiab hais
taus me ntsis es ho hu police los yog mus ua court restraining order
cais tus txiv ces tus txiv los muab tus poj niam tua kiag pov tseg xwb.
Qhov nov, ziag no peb Hmoob poj niam los ntau txiv thiab txawj tsim
txom peb txiv neej Hmoob lawm, thiab. Qhov nov ces kuv yeej pom tias
tim peb cov ua txiv lawm. Tsis yog tias peb niam/ntxhais Hmoob muaj cai
nyob rau teb chaw no; qhov tseeb ces twb yog peb niam/ntxhais Hmoob ib
txwm tsis muaj cai ces thaum tau me, me cai ces zoo li tshaj peb txiv
neej li lawm xwb....
3. Muaj ntau tus txiv neej cov kawm ntawv siab thiab ntse, lawv rov
qab los mus muab Hmoob muag noj muag hauv xwb tsis yog los pab txhim
kho Hmoob kom zoo.
Peb ua neeg nyob muaj ib hom txawj ntse tsis tag yuav kawm. Ib hom kawm
txawj nws yam tiam sis tsis ntse. Ib hom yeej tsis ntse ces yim kawm
yim tiv nqi. Yog no thaum kawg thiaj tseem muaj kev nrhiav noj haus los
quab yuam ces noob neeg lub siab thiaj li ntxeev rov los mus dag Hmoob
noj...vim Hmoob thiaj dag tau; i.e. Hmoob phej muab ntshav pleev rau
pob zeb los yog stuffing animal & dag rau dab tias yog nyuj yog bua no.
Yog no Hmoob dag dab ces neej Hmoob rov dag Hmoob.
4. Hmoob cov txiv neej mas siab phem thiab khib heev. Tsis hais kev
ua lag luam los yog kev ua nom ua tswv. Yog leej twg us tau ib tub nom
zoo los yog muaj nyiaj tshaj, txiv neej Hmoob muab tus ntawd tsim thiab
lauj ko taw kom thaum kawg nws ciaj qhev thiab pluag mus xwb mas thiaj
tag.
Qhov nov yog ib qho zoo ua yuav qhia tias peb Hmoob noob neej tshwm los
txog 21st Century lawm los tsis. Yog tias peb kev sib daj sib deev
tseem yog ib txog kev saib loj tshaj rau peb noob neej ces peb yuav
nrog noob neej ntiaj teb sib raw tsis sib cuag. I am not saying that
sex should not play any part, but that it should not be the one reason
why we kill and abuse now adays....
5. Txiv neej Hmoob yeej tsis kam zam txiv rau leej twg thiab yeej tsis
kam txo lawv lub hwj chim li.
Another Hmong weak point. Sib pauj kua zaub ntsuab yog Hmoob ib lub hwj
chim zam tsis tau li...
Beside sex, we must learn to accept mistake, forgive, and move forward;
no one can truly forget, but we must some how find ways to move
forward.
6. Txiv neej Hmoob mas lawv tsuas xav tib qho qhov hais tias lawv mas
thiaj yog tus zoo tshaj thiab ntse tshaj lwm tus. Yog thiab tsis yog
los lawv ua raws lawv lub siab xwb yeej tsis mloog lwm tus hais thiab
qhia li.
Kuv nyuam qhuav down load google earth & saib na has Phu Bia (tallest
Mountain in Laos), is actually the smallest of all the Mountain in
Laos, but in the Hmong's mind, Phu Bia is THE MOUNTAIN in Laos.
You get what I mean...
However, all in all, Hmong men are not as bad as publicized or that of
what our beloved Hmong sisters made us to be. Remember, we are children
of wars and our elder (Hmong men) are as such because they were once
thought to be such and such. Thus we cannot expect them to uphold the
same life lessons or practices as we are in modern and developed
country.
I know there's no excuse for abusive and murderous actions...but that's
my two-cent worth.....
.
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