Re: Purrs for a Problem I'm having (not life threatening tho)

On Feb 28, 4:29 pm, " Kyla =^..^=" <kyla.water...@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Now, I''ve got a big problem again.  Remember my former friend who I was
asking for purrs for who stole my meds?  Well, she called this morning,
she's back in town, taking Prozac and is doing good.  She asked DH to take
her to the local bus terminal so she could go to a job interview. He did and
we're waiting for her to call and ask to be picked up.  No problem there..
However, IF she comes over to my home, yes I'll let her in, but the Rx's
will be under lock and key.
Do I let her back into my life?  She's like 31 years old, and used to be my
little best friend, and she was very sweet.  She did so much for me when we
were friends.  She gave me the sweetest birthday gifts last year.
I think she is getting counseling, along with the meds, which is great:)
I'm happy for her.  She has a darling Cat named Buttons who I've known since
he was 5 weeks old.  I used to kiternsit for him when she went to
church..LOL
I'm a very forgiving person by nature.
And I'm so glad she's doing better, I've been praying for her.
And you've been sending purrs and prayers for her, which have worked:)
What should I do?
Thanks
HUGS
Kyla
--and snoozing kitties



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I second the advice. She is trying to take care of her troubles, so
give her a qualified second chance. It's a "trust in God, but tether
your camel anyway" situation. Keep any little thing that might tempt
her out of sight, at very least and preferably locked where she can't
get at them. If you're uneasy about inviting her over, go have coffee/
lunch etc etc in a neutral setting for both of you. Don't write her
off, but make her earn your trust back rather than just saying "all is
forgiven" too quickly.

Melissa
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