Re: Another thing happened today (not OT, slight rant)



On Tue, 31 Jan 2006 14:04:58 -0600, jmcquown wrote:

> After I took my licensing exam I went to the optician where I'd gone a few
> weeks ago for an eye exam and got new contacts/glasses. I've been going
> there for 10 years. Anyway, they got my prescription wrong so I went in for
> a re-check. They fixed the problem with corrected contacts and sent my
> "new" glasses off to get new lenses put in.
>
> The young woman who helped me remembered I have a cat. She told me she'd
> adopted an 8 week old kitten almost 9 months ago and has soooo fallen in
> love with him. She said he's so sweet, so loving. The problem is, she and
> her fiance just discovered she's pregnant. And they are going to have to
> move in with her parents.
>
> Her parents told her she'd have to get rid of the cat. The reason they gave
> her was specious - they said cats and babies don't mix. They fed her the
> old wives' tale about how cats smother babies, so she'd have to get rid of
> the cat.
>
> IMHO, in reality her parents don't want to deal with the sudden intrusion of
> their daughter, her fiance, a baby *and* a 9 month old cat. If that's the
> case, why don't they just tell her it's all too overwhelming?
>
> She's worried about giving this sweet cat to someone who might not take care
> of him. I suggested she contact her vet to ask about re-homing suggestions.
> I also cautioned her not to put an ad in the newspaper, citing people who
> will buy a cat listed for little money (or FREE) and then sell the cat to a
> research facility or for use in training dogs to fight. She was so young,
> she'd never heard of that before. I asked if she had access to a computer;
> no. So Petfinders wasn't an option.
>
> I hope she finds a good home for her cat. I hate that her parents have
> convinced her a cat and a baby won't mix. I don't think they are being
> honest with her. She looked young enough to be my daughter and even *I*
> know cats don't kill babies. Doesn't everyone with infants these days have
> baby monitors? Close the door to the bedroom/nursery. No worries about the
> cat.
>
> Jill


It would be nice if you would take the cat to find it a good home. Purrs
for the kitty. MLB

.



Relevant Pages

  • Thinking about Baby
    ... Baby was a cat. ... It was 1974 and I'd sit out on the driveway at my parents ... house as the sun was going down. ...
    (rec.pets.cats.anecdotes)
  • Re: Purrs for Jet, please
    ... Christine ... > At the start of December, my parents noticed a new cat wandering about ... > collar was his name, Jet, and a phone number. ...
    (rec.pets.cats.anecdotes)
  • Re: Bobby is getting a new friend tomorrow
    ... Hope it was a wake up call for the parents to make the baby's room a little ... This cat loves the baby they have. ... I don't think I can imagine any reason for declawing a cat ...
    (rec.pets.cats.anecdotes)
  • Re: Turned the corner on Spring
    ... You will have to wait for a while until every insect known to man seems to be in flight, and the short-tailed robins are out trying to learn how to dig worms before the cat catches them at it ... ... wife is meeting with her parents to talk about just what does happen when they no longer can look after themselves ... ... I went for a walk in the Marina yesterday morning and at 8am it was shirt sleeve weather. ...
    (rec.music.gdead)
  • Re: when baby says Mummy to his Dad...
    ... And since my kid isn't born yet, but I am sure will do this at some ... I'll use the example of my cat. ... but every once in awhile I think "WHY? ... I just think parents are ...
    (misc.kids)