Re: Odds on Paul Never Being the Same Again?


Slip Kid wrote:
IBen Getiner wrote:
ulysses@xxxxxxxxxx wrote:
Linda died and Paul wasn't destroyed and he certainly bounced back (too
soon for most people's tastes).

Utterly ridiculous. That's the whole reason why he'z in the mess that
he'z in now. Because he never took the time to grow something out of
his grief. He suddenly found himself childless, alone, older and
without a soul-mate, and he panicked. He was not in the correct state
emotionally to get remarried, and now that's pretty well plain to see.
To everyone but you, that is. Bet you're just like him.



IBen

Where is IBen?
Who is this person making sense and being sensitive?

Nah, you're in territory I don't venture & it's prolly too neat and
tidy...But that was pretty cool.

_DISCLAIMER_
Pure & unfounded speculation follows...But it's speculation which
doesn't seek a guilty party to string up.

Yeah, that was a thoughtful retort (and especially for IB?) & his
response is as kind (IBen?) and without blame as I've seen.

Prolly more realistic and less of a 'who done it' than than the
"Official Statements" and most of the vituperates in threads.

I wouldn't be surprised if the P, man is covering some of the same
ground as the above, in slow-mo.

Dunno about there being too little time 'cause I'm enough of a romantic
to believe he could have met someone in the same time-frame and been
just fine.
I doubt he 'panicked' 'cause he didn't exactly meet his solitude
w/complete surprise. It could have been the opposite?

Time to 'take account' ahead of Linda's death might make anyone think
they have a better grip and are prepared not to hit rock fuckin' bottom.
It's a nasty place, but ya don't want to 'skip' it.

Or, does anyone believe his future was ignored while Linda was still alive?
But while that's healthier than him 'wondering' what Linda thought - -
He may have even felt more pressure not to 'grieve'.
She said "Be cool and move on."

So, if he was feeling like a piece of ***, jeeze, Linda "said it will
be OK"? That's haunting!
He had to 'make it OK!' (It wasn't Linda's fault, they covered the
future and he 'owed' it to her to be a 'big boy' about it)

Nuttin' worse than feelin' fucked over and not bein' able to lash out. -
- That may have included "Why me?" and um, people do get angry for a
partner dyin' on 'em.

The 'without a soul-mate' and 'never took the time to grow something out
of his grief'...(This can't be IBen, them's are feelin's - him never
showed 'em before...) is more reasonable.
Not so much in measurable time, but whatever time it takes to really crash.

It's not layin' the gold digger on Heather or making the world take the
fall.

I'd rather believe the "Statement" was a cover.
"Pressures surrounding us" doesn't 'blame' Heather & he knew people
would like to nail her but he's got no grudge.
He's not going to make her feel less for being what she is.

Go figure, IBen doesn't slash and burn, I'm not too disturbed by
(generous) speculation & and I'm thinkin' Paul is finally alone in a
place where his charm isn't much good.

A tidy transition was asking too much. He was impressive but too smooth
by half.

It's only him now. Minus the fame, and the good or bad perceptions
people have of him - - and without his soul-mate and her expectations.

Just him.


IBen, you do realize you exposed your humanity?


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On the things that you and disagree over, I make no sense. On the
things were we do, I'm 'exposing my humanity! LOL..!! Do you realize
that I expose the same humanity when I tell you that the blacks and
homosexuals are a scourge on the face of mother earth, and they need to
be removed for the good of all humanity? I'm not only thinking of
myself here... I'm thinking about the world that all of our kids have
to grow up in. It's just that you're blindly sympathetic to these
causes (or you're one yourself), so now 'I'm senselessly insensitive'.
Go-fucking figure. You are so fucking transparent... I'm surprised you
don't just rise up and float away. I take that back... After reading
your entire rambling goofed-out posting, I think I can safely say that
you already have..


IBen

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