Re: I know you guys would hate me for this....



On 32khz Ibn al-Hazardous shrieked:
<snip>
Oh, and incidentaly - you do treat erimess differently.

Don't take the following too seriously. I am merely curious, btw.

How do I treat her differently from your third-party's POV? Google
everything for history. I can't say anything about that until I hear from
your opinion.

Anyways, the current conflict started by saying I mistreated my cat.
What's her argument now? I see nothing but accusation of my character
rather than logically arguing why she thinks I did a bad deed to my cat. I
focus my argument with defending myself, she kept offending me using
taunts. I will try not talk to her again, which is something she had
wished long times ago, but I still tried to talk to her hoping our
friendship would be normal again (my fault). But that's history beyond
what happened in this group and it'll be unfair to drag you into it.

BTW, when I entered this group, this place has been free of major flame
wars. It's a crucial environment for me to recover from the depression,
which I've been out of for some time now. I know you guys had a history of
bad disputes, but I usually tried not to know more than the basics. If I
don't know about it, then this is a happy place to me the way I see it.

It has been a very civil and mature group, and that's the whole reason why
I say I love you guys in the first place. I know it's quite painful for me
to work in a place where managers don't recognize people's hard work.
That's the original purpose of this thread: recognition. Even when the
conflict started, you guys still treat the event with maturity, instead of
exacerbate the issue. Is it wrong for me to love you guys as a group for
being exceptional?

--
Ashikaga a28
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