Re: Mostly OT: The Height of Pettiness?
- From: "crzy4xst@xxxxxxx" <crzy4xst@xxxxxxx>
- Date: 23 Sep 2005 16:46:58 -0700
Pat P wrote:
> <crzy4xst@xxxxxxx> wrote in message
> news:1127512039.419812.301790@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> >I want to run something by the folks here. I'm trying to figure out if
> > what this woman did is just the height of pettiness, or if I'm seeing
> > something more than what actually is there.
> >
> > I told you all about the insane accusations made about me by a former
> > AOL chat host, Jill. She claimed I'd said some things about her that
> > were truly vile and totally outside of my personality to say.
> >
> > She kept claiming she had been contacted by someone on the internet, or
> > a long time online buddy, or several people, the story kept changing.
> > The one thing that would not change was that she refused to believe
> > anything but the nasty lie. Any attempt on my part to try to reason
> > with her was deemed me "playing games" and "trying to be clever."
> >
> > Ok whatever, nothing I can do if she chooses to be like that right? I
> > made it clear that I would still be coming to chats on AOL because I do
> > have friends there and I wouldn't allow her to drive me away. I told
> > her I had her emails blocked, so that she couldn't harass me via email
> > any longer.
> >
> > I'd said two weeks ago in the chatroom, that with my work schedule the
> > only chat I could now make it to was the Friday afternoon one.
> >
> > Here's the part I'm needing feedback on.
> >
> > Last Friday morning, she sends out an email to select people who come
> > to chat. It announces that she won't be using the old chatroom, and
> > gives out a link in this email to the new private chat room. For those
> > without AOL, private chatrooms are just that, nobody can see them or
> > those in them, nor can they enter without the link.
> >
> > Obvious, I didn't get the email, and it didn't end up in my spam folder
> > either, unlike some other emails she sent. Clearly she'd taken the
> > time to remove my name from her usual mailing list.
> >
> > Now, am I being paranoid, or is Jill actually being as vindictive and
> > petty as I think she is? I don't want to believe she'd go that far to
> > try to cut me off from my other friends in chat. And yet, I can't help
> > but think she's attempting to do just that.
> >
> > I'm sure some here will jump to tell me I am crazy or "need therapy"
> > but I'd like some feedback from people who take a moment to think about
> > it.
> >
> > Thanks!
> >
> > Caryn
>
> Just ignore it, Caryn, she is being petty, but after all she`s not a
> "friend" you`re ever likely to live next door to, is she? Just forget her
> and don`t let her be of any more importance than that. If your other
> chatroom friends are worth having as friends, they`ll contact you as usual,
> I`m sure.
>
> Pat P
> >
It is pretty pathetic that she's taking it this far, especially since
she claims she is the mature one! rofl
Mostly I just wanted someone outside to tell me if I read the situation
wrong, being as close to it as I am, I might have been seeing things
that weren't there.
Caryn
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