Re: Mostly OT: The Height of Pettiness?


<crzy4xst@xxxxxxx> wrote in message
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>I want to run something by the folks here. I'm trying to figure out if
> what this woman did is just the height of pettiness, or if I'm seeing
> something more than what actually is there.
>
> I told you all about the insane accusations made about me by a former
> AOL chat host, Jill. She claimed I'd said some things about her that
> were truly vile and totally outside of my personality to say.
>
> She kept claiming she had been contacted by someone on the internet, or
> a long time online buddy, or several people, the story kept changing.
> The one thing that would not change was that she refused to believe
> anything but the nasty lie. Any attempt on my part to try to reason
> with her was deemed me "playing games" and "trying to be clever."
>
> Ok whatever, nothing I can do if she chooses to be like that right? I
> made it clear that I would still be coming to chats on AOL because I do
> have friends there and I wouldn't allow her to drive me away. I told
> her I had her emails blocked, so that she couldn't harass me via email
> any longer.
>
> I'd said two weeks ago in the chatroom, that with my work schedule the
> only chat I could now make it to was the Friday afternoon one.
>
> Here's the part I'm needing feedback on.
>
> Last Friday morning, she sends out an email to select people who come
> to chat. It announces that she won't be using the old chatroom, and
> gives out a link in this email to the new private chat room. For those
> without AOL, private chatrooms are just that, nobody can see them or
> those in them, nor can they enter without the link.
>
> Obvious, I didn't get the email, and it didn't end up in my spam folder
> either, unlike some other emails she sent. Clearly she'd taken the
> time to remove my name from her usual mailing list.
>
> Now, am I being paranoid, or is Jill actually being as vindictive and
> petty as I think she is? I don't want to believe she'd go that far to
> try to cut me off from my other friends in chat. And yet, I can't help
> but think she's attempting to do just that.
>
> I'm sure some here will jump to tell me I am crazy or "need therapy"
> but I'd like some feedback from people who take a moment to think about
> it.
>
> Thanks!
>
> Caryn

Just ignore it, Caryn, she is being petty, but after all she`s not a
"friend" you`re ever likely to live next door to, is she? Just forget her
and don`t let her be of any more importance than that. If your other
chatroom friends are worth having as friends, they`ll contact you as usual,
I`m sure.

Pat P
>


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