Re: Cycling is good for you



Peter Wieck wrote:

On Mar 2, 2:42 am, Patrick Turner <i...@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

Patrick:

This is not meant as advice, but just a small suggestion. If you are
finding desireable (and consequently attentive) women hard to find
down-under, there must be a significant difference in demographics
there than here.

Allow me to introduce you to the facts of life.

Desirable women are anything but attentive, and their roving eyes
seek the richest man they can plunder, especially if he's older.
Women sell their cunts, didn't you know that?
Every man in a happy nice cosy relationship pays a price for having a
good woman alongside
him through his life.

It has been my observation that about any reasonably
healthy male (presumably single) over 50 capable of stringing more
than three words together and/or use words of more than two sylables
occasionally, able to pay for their own meals and who keeps his sheets
clean is exactly as busy as he wants to be. If he is capable of
cooking, drives a reasonable vehicle and keeps himself clean, he will
be chased. If also a widower, he will have to change his phone number
at intervals.


Surely you jest???

I recently tried contacting 80 women in the local online dating services
offereing 270 females over 48. 6 responded positively, and I emailed
them
but I got no reply, and yes, I have all the attributes good women say
they want
EXCEPT A HUGE INCOME THAT I WANT TO SPEND ON THEM.

The sticking point is the money.

Most women never admit it, but they practise robbery in bed all the
time.

I did meet about 4 women of suitable age, "desirablity", whatever that
is, and
they all refused to go futher than date no1. I actually was a good
catch, but
although they say they want a man, when one real man turns up, they say
no.
Welcome to double speak with the Forked Tongue, land of inuendo,
outright lies, sheer unadulterated BS,
and avoidance of reality, and indulgence in nihilistic practices, and
false idiotic beliefs and
religions, gross agendas, absurd emotional and financial expectations.
This is what romance over 50 involves.

All the women were very bitter about their divorces.

None were very sexy, and giving a BJ was utterly out of the question.

One went past date1, and we went out for a month, and the sex was quite
awful with her.
She suffered very bad vaginitis and nobody could enter. Not good for a
57 yr old
who could swim a couple of km quite easily, and wasn't just fat frumpy
frow.
I spent a month slowly coaxing her into
sex, and getting her to orgasm.
But she wasn't ever going to move right, or give a BJ
so I couldn't functio.
It was like rooting a sack of potatoes with a bowl of porridge for a
***
once she did loosen up after what seemed a long time.

I then soon found that wnhen I was with her, I had this loud voice in my
head saying
"why" and that "she isn't desirable" and "i don't want this woman", and
"god, she looks so old".
I just could not stop my natural thoughts.
Rather than fake it up like so many guys do, and continue it, I just
suggested gently she wasn't for me,
and suggested she should answer somebody else's add in the newspaper.
She never paid for her share of the bill at restaurants,
so I'd have to find a few grand extra each year just to go out with her.
This was the other problem.
Relationships should mean cheaper living because of sharing.
The time she expected me to spend with her intimately was absurd, with
long discussions either about nothing,
or endless repetitions of her past emotional dysfunctions with men and
family, and this was plain boring.

I eventually had to point out when she enquired why I was ending it was
that
"I prefer to spend 4 hrs on a bicycle, its cheaper, and I get
somewhere."

That, or your slightly toxic attitude towards women puts them off.
You have to be on your guard when dealing with anyone. If this seems
like being
"slightly toxic" then so be it. I can't and damn well won't please all
the people all the time.

I share my house with a 42 yr old lady with who I get along fine with,
but she's asexual.
We have never had an argument in 3 years.
But since I divorced the wife who deserted me at 29, I have had many
women stay as house guests,
some had lovers, some got married and left, some saved to travel, and
few bonked the be-jesus out of me
until they felt the stylus had reached the end of the record, which
usually took about a year to occur.
None wanted to spoil a good man with marriage. I was genuinely sad to
see them find the outside world and its wonders
had more attractions than being couped up domestically with an attactive
man in suburbia. Some are still
roaming around slowly from job to job, man to man, whatever, I have lost
contact
with all of them.

I can love some sheilas, but certainly not all of them, and if I had
$1.00 for each time I said no when
one wanted to bonk me I'd be rich.
I am rather choosy about who I bonk, and saying no when they want it
soon unravels all their mischeivious plans.
Often there was a tirade of abusive language from them, and they'd then
throw at me the knowledge they were
bonking some other dude. "Great," i'd say, "I ain't into bonking the
town bike", and then I'd leave
without any further discussions.
I'll spare you more lurid details of what indicates that many women are
just as amoral as many men.
They have to actually really be friends, but that's extremely difficult
between the sexes.


You can certainly string the words, you claim fitness (and unlike
others here you have good credentials that way), and my guess is that
you do not scare the horses (much) with your appearance. Lighten up on
the fair sex a wee bit and you may well have more action than you can
handle.

Yeah, I heard it all before, thousands of times, and when i applied the
theory,
life became rather DULL, and most certainly womanless, no matter what
age i was.
Sitting still and just looking good around a dinner table doesn't get me
hot to trot, or them.
I like to drop a few bombshells about politics, money, sex, religion.
Being a lap dog isn't my style.
When young, all the "desirable" women chased other men, and it was a
very common
thing to find myself sharing a deceitful sheila who was two timing me,
so I'd just drop the fukking bitch like a stone.
There were plenty of fat/dull/dysfunctional ones who I avoided like the
plague.
You know what the "C" word really is? It ain't ***, that's a really
fantastically beautiful thing,
its "Commitment"; this is the really horrid ugly word amoung single ppl.
Commitment usually stifles any eroticism, which when sought at over 50
becomes warped, because sex changes from being easy sensuality to being
bloody hard work to get anywhere, and often with someone who
simply has lost all her charms that were such a turn on when
you both were 25, even 40.
So being with women is a product of desire, but its this that is killed
off or naturally dies
so easily, and so having any woman in your life isn't a mark of success;
it could be failure.
And when you age, what do you replace desire with? As one woman put it
so well when i mentioned
companionship, she hissed at me, "..but ya can't *** companionship".
She needed proding with a *** 3 times a week at 47, and it mattered not
whose ***.
I happily dumped her after date no2, when she asked me to "stay", and
the abuse was trotted out.
I ain't a dog. And she sure wasn't Marolyn Monroe.
She may feel rather lost at 57, 67, 77, or 87...

I look at the army of lonely women out there and really, i am appalled.

The ones with happy marriages at 50 seem far more together, inspiring,
nice, slim, tight, sober
smiling, functional, loving, and happy, and yeah, i'd like one of those,
and won't settle for less,
but they are usually all taken by richer men. Some of these guys seem so
unfit, fat, ugly, unhappy
and powerless emotionally, and perhaps non threatening to a woman, and
need a woman to control them.
They are under the thumb. Mentally castrated. Marriage sure can destroy
ppl.
Its not always the case of course, but life is capricious.

Women have to be persued, didn't you know that?
They crave flowers, sensitivity, romance, and money spent without it
being obvious
they are being paid for. Wooing is what they crave, and money
lenders cheer a romantic bloke onwards. Its best if you have a well
paying job, nice house, nice car, and have regularly
up-dated the decor within the house and kept the gardens trim, and you
live alone.
Conditions are just right for a gal to make a killing!
Credit cards do have a function.
( Not with me though! )

And most are simply not worth the expense and time and effort.

I credit myself with being a realist, a pragmatist, and being honest.

I'd rather be right than popular.

This made my marriages last so briefly, mainly because I can't accept BS
and lies.
If they relentlessly complained like they do, I'd say "well, there's the
door if you don't like it"
What else do you say to a wife/lover or anyone else who just won't keep
to an agreement?
What else to a woman who has turned from being a happy romanticist and
provider
of domestic bliss to a whinging whining unhappy depressed bitch? Therapy
sure didn't work.
No good calling a priest in, no good analysing with all the quasi
qualified quack ideas on the Net.
I'd open the door, and shut it gently after they left, when they wanted
to go.
I know about good manners. All the hot air wasn't going to work, and
besides,
I needed a good night's sleep, I had to start work at 7am.
I knew I had to earn the money to pay the lawyer's fees to arrange the
divorce and property
settlement.
But because I nipped trouble in the bud, the fees costs and angst were
minimized
to 20dB below what many other blokes went through.

Women's magazines never compose their pages with the commonsense issues
I have raised.
Perhaps I have addressed the contemporary issues and problems between
the sexes
today in an adequate manner and I hope i don't feel i have to repeat it
too often.



Patrick Turner.



Peter Wieck
Wyncote, PA
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