Re: Re Is Bridget Fair?


"Patricia Wadley" <mjw0@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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> Cheri wrote:
>
>> Patricia Wadley wrote in message ...
>>
>>
>>>It is unfair to blame Bridge for not bonding immediately with the kid.
>>>Why should she? There are a lot of issues here besides needy kids.
>>>There are a lot of needy kids out there who need parents, not just
>>
>> Moms.
>>
>>> To condemn her for being unsure of the situation is to say that you
>>>would have been able to ignore ALL of the crap that Nick has put her
>>>through and would have been more than willing to become the automaton
>>>whose only purpose in life is to pump out kids or take care of them.
>>>
>>
>>
>>
>> I don't know Patricia, I've bonded instantly with all my nephews. Also,
>> it's not like the billionaires son would be hard pressed to hire help,
>> or to afford to raise the kid. The whole story line is just ridiculous
>> IMO. :-)
>>
>> Cheri
>>
>>
> Yes, I bonded with my cousin's kids. But, bonding with kids you see on
> occasion is a lot different from altering your life.
>
> On the one hand it is very easy for us to get self-righteous about how
> another person should act in a given situation. But, the reality is that
> life is a lot messier than what we think it should be done and how it
> should be done and how it should turn out.
>
> I tell people that the only person who is truly in control of their lives
> is the person who can make lemonade. Bridge is going to take little
> Dominick. But to tell you the truth I wouldn't have believed it if she
> had said "whoopee" and bonded right there and then.
>
> Bridge is a survivor. She is a lot like Steph. Steph not only accepted
> her husband's children with Brooke she bonded with them and treated them
> as her own. She was the only stability they had growing up. Remember what
> Bridge said about her childhood.
>
> Bridge will take Dominick, she will love him and she will become a great
> mom. But it is not fair to fuss at her because she was not overjoyed to
> be faced with another of Nick's lovers, and a permanent reminder of that
> love affair. No it is not Dominick's fault, but we are talking about a
> really difficult situation.
>
> And if I blame anyone it is Felicia. She should have told Nick the second
> she found out she was pregnant. It was stupid and selfish of her, and it
> was very controlling.
>
> my2cents
> p
In a way, I understand Felicia's reasoning. She did not know if the baby
would survive. She didn't want to get his hopes up, and she did not want to
make him feel obligated. Felicia's a "free spirit". ;-)


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