Re: Here we go...

yttrstein@xxxxxxxxx wrote: 
yttrstein, i thought you were a bit more clueful and understanding.
perhaps i've overestimated you all these years?

Ah, the stabby, bitchass zen compliment of non-compliment.

that wasn't a compliment/non-compliment. it was more of a vocalization of the sad realization that you're not the person i thought you were. but then over the many years i've known you/jim/cora/yttrx/... you've never been easy to nail down, and something tells me that'll never change. that's life. (:

I always liked you and stuff, but ive never thought ONCE in all these
years that FPS was a good idea.  I (and many others) simply didnt say
anything, because there was always the whole "making other people feel
bad" problem.

i don't recall ever asking you (or those phantom others) if you thought my choice to pursue WLS was a good idea. i felt it was the right decision for my situation; my family, my doctor and my surgeon agreed, and after much soul searching and over two years of research, i moved forward and saw things through to the end.

a few close friends did share their concerns with me - fears of dying, fears of "shitting caramel" [nod to lish] and other potential complications. some folks disagreed with me/my choices, but they still supported, and continue to support, me. if you were too worried about "hurting my feelings" or "making other people feel bad," or some such bull***, that's your issue, not mine.

Not that that isnt a problem, but I'm in a more brutal mood these days. 

you have fun with that, sweetheart.



katester
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Kate A. Pohjola, MLIS
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