Re: Boys only

On Jun 27, 7:47 am, "news" <n...@xxxxxxxx> wrote:
"Vickie" <lilliputianbizz...@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message

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On Jun 26, 12:45 pm, "news" <n...@xxxxxxxx> wrote:



"Vickie" <lilliputianbizz...@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message

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Hey all.
Got a problem and not sure what to do.

Our kids' step-grandpa is very close with our son. He and grandma are
wonderful with the kids and it is nice to have them around.
Unfortunately grandpa seems to want to include our son in everything,
but disclude our two girls.

Recently he asked my son to a baseball game (with fireworks at the
end) and suggested a sleepover.

Are you sure he's not molesting your son?
No, I am really tight with my children and my son would not hold back

t>elling me if anything, ANYTHING, was inappropriately going on.

I hope you know I am not offended at your question/conclusion.
Vickie

Of course. IMO, though, a 48-yr-old man ( I wouldn't call him a grandfather
in any sense, probably grandma's husband) being very involved with any of my
kids would strike me as weird.

As a guy, it came to mind as well that maybe he is grooming him for
sex. Especially since he is not related by blood and came into the
picture at a later stage.

Assuming otherwise, I can understand the occasional fishing or
sporting event with the grandson, however, I cannot phantom consistent
attention to the grandson while ignoring the sisters. If my son were
to grow up and have children, I would love them equally.

Regards...


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