Re: Boys only



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"Vickie" <lilliputianbizzare@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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On Jun 26, 12:45 pm, "news" <n...@xxxxxxxx> wrote:
"Vickie" <lilliputianbizz...@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message

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> Hey all.
> Got a problem and not sure what to do.

> Our kids' step-grandpa is very close with our son. He and grandma are
> wonderful with the kids and it is nice to have them around.
> Unfortunately grandpa seems to want to include our son in everything,
> but disclude our two girls.

> Recently he asked my son to a baseball game (with fireworks at the
> end) and suggested a sleepover.

Are you sure he's not molesting your son?

No, I am really tight with my children and my son would not hold back
t>elling me if anything, ANYTHING, was inappropriately going on.


Of course. IMO, though, a 48-yr-old man ( I wouldn't call him a grandfather
in any sense, probably grandma's husband) being very involved with any of my
kids would strike me as weird.



Oh please good grief. Gradma's husband still means he wants to fit in a bit as
a Grandpa. My father's second wife did a little of the grandma thing, although
they married after we kids were grown.

It's still a possibility I wouldn't reject outright. An extreme interest can signal trouble. My kids have Grandpas who don't spend that much time with the kids, though they do spend time. So a grandpa wanting spend lots of time with the kids is a foreign concept to me.

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