Re: What to do when your son tell you he hates you.


"Beliavsky" <beliavsky@xxxxxxx> wrote in message
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On Oct 22, 7:55 am, Banty <Banty_mem...@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

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Here's what you do. Self-inoculate yourselves. Designate yourselves the
Great
*** and Queen Bitch of the household. When he calls you names and
says he
hates you, nod your head(s) and say "yup", and keep right on with
whatever you
need to do.

Banty (whose son called her a "bitch" - and answered with "hmmmmm, and
that
makes YOU.....?")

Letting your son call you that without a severe punishment makes you a
wimp in my book. If my children called their mother that, she'd be
justified in slapping them. They ought to be frightened to even think
of saying such a thing. I never dreamed of calling my mother that,
even though like almost all people, there are times when she is
unpleasant.

A boy probably won't show women in general more respect than he shows
his mother. What kind of man do you want to raise?



Personally, I want to raise a child who does right for the right reasons,
not because he is afraid to get slapped. But that is me.


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