Re: opinion needed
- From: "toypup" <toypup@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Sat, 29 Apr 2006 21:00:58 GMT
"tmdl20" <tmdl20@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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The problem is that I'm worried that my son is/will become spoiled and
learn that crying gets him attention. He's so different when DH is around.
It's now getting to the point that he's crying to be held by his Dad even
when I'm home. I cannot hold him for long as he's 27lbs, so I can't even
compete with Dad on this even if I wanted to... which I don't.
I've briefly mentioned this to my DH, but he plays it off as "I can't just
let him cry... he just wants to be held." I personally think that my
husband needs to not pick him up all the time and let him become more
independent. Like I said, when he's with me, he's happy as can be whether
I'm playing with him or doing dishes. The behavioour I'm seeing is
frustating me!
I think you should let it alone. Your DH and DS will work it out. They
will have a different relationship from yours. That's just how it is. If
your DH becomes annoyed with the behavior, he will put a stop to it or find
a way to work it out. Meanwhile, let it be.
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