Re: more birthday ettiquete questions




Hello,

The problem is that drop-off and pick-up is so varied that I can't wait
around outside everyday waiting for each child's parent to come. I don't
want DS handing out invitations in class, since DS didn't even know he had
an invitation when he got it and nearly didn't give it to me, and I don't
want kids who don't get one to feel left out.


I may be harsh, but if I know I can only invite a certain number of
children and my son chooses who to invite I just get on with it. Of
course, I've guided him at times when needed, but generally I don't get
in a twist about missing children out.
Parents should understand. If your son get pally with someone he didn't
invite, or misses someone out then you'll be able to invite them over
to play.

As for the practicalities, some day cares are happy to distribute
invitations for parents, others have a blanket no (which is
understandable). In the latter case, I'm sure they'll be able to show
you where each child keeps their bag and you can pop the envelope in
there.

Mary Ann

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