Re: UPDATE: playgroup fiasco


Banty wrote:
> Well, likely after she 'rebuffed' -L's child the first time, for whatever reason
> (like, seeing an adult friend and wanting to talk to her about something, rather
> than being tied up with -L's child instead, while her friend gets involved in
> another conversation), she's gotten some strange 'vibes' from -L.

See, the way you make up these scenarios goes a long way to explain why
you are such a can't-see-past-your-nose entitlemoo and such a fucking
bore.

First of all, my kid approached her when she was sitting by herself in
a chair, simply looking down at her kids playing. (Remember - he's
just turned 2.) There were other kids around, interactring with all of
them. Secondly, when it became clear she wanted nothing to do with him
(a matter of a couple of seconds) I steered him away. I actually tried
to say hello to her later in the day, - again to make this very clear
- *when it was appropriate to do so*. So there is no way she could be
getting any "stange vibes" from me. Unlike you, I am not
passive-aggressive. If I have a real problem with someone, I confront
them about it. I simply asked the question about her odd behavior
because that is what it was - ODD. I was just wondering if anyone
might have some insight into what might have caused her to shun a two
year old *for no apparent reason*. Cultural differences are a
possiblity. Depression is a possibility. Racism is a possibility.
Being deep in thought is a possibility. Thanks to those of you who
offered logical explanations.


>
> As much as one thinks another can't perceive that one suspects them of
> something, unconcious signals are sent off and they do.

I am not one to send "unconscious signals". If I think you are an
***, I'd tell you, and I'd tell you why.

>
> This can be a molehill that's turning into a mountain.

Only because you won't STFU about it. I have my answers, thanks for
playing.

-L.

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