Re: A gentle reminder for those who should know

Snit wrote: 
"Steve Mackay" <steve_mackay@xxxxxxxxxxx> stated in post
pan.2005.12.02.04.27.41.848116@xxxxxxxxxxx on 12/1/05 9:27 PM:

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Snit. You acting like you've done no wrong here is really quite pathetic.
But maybe you can get your sockpuppets to back you up here.



I am neither going to take responsibility for their actions nor give you a
detailed list of where their obsessive research has been accurate and where
they have made up outright lies.  I will, however, provide you with a lie
from each of them, as examples:

* Steve claims I contacted his unmarried "wife" via e-mail.
* Elizabot claims I am on welfare


http://groups.google.com/group/comp.sys.mac.advocacy/msg/49b95ecef897d7b8?dmode=source

http://tinyurl.com/e292e

Member Name: sweet tomato   Member Since: Jan 24, 2005
Gender: Female
Relationship status: married
My Home State or Country: AZ
My Partner's Job: Teacher @ college
About Myself:
My husband and I are very excited to be expecting our first child, due
June 4, 2005. We're choosing to use a midwife and have a home delivery,
provided all goes well. We are not having a sonogram to find out what
sex the baby is as we want to be surprised. I am loving being pregnant!
I've always wanted to be a mom and am at a point in my life where I feel
confident in my abilities to be a good mom and that feels good.        :)


http://tinyurl.com/8g2tz

Sorry it's taken so long to post, but it's been kinda crazy 'round here
this last week! Our 'little bit' Ash Morgan was born June 9th at 9:03
pm. She weighed in at 8 lbs 2 oz and 20.5 inches. And what a doll (of
course, I'm the mother so I'm gonna say that.. hee-hee)!! I'm so in love!

I'll post my story as soon as company leaves (Sunday morning... thank
god!!). For now, here's a url to see what she looks like.

http://myweb.cableone.net/snit/ash

Thanks for letting me know about the url. Hopefully, the link will
appear correctly now.


http://tinyurl.com/7r6o9

....dressing up the teddy bears that are about 'baby size'? I have been!
LOL Or, my husband will come home from work to find the teddy bear
dressed in our baby's clothes sitting in the baby swing, or the bouncer,
or some other baby item...like the stroller! I have three months left
and it's killing me....I want our baby...NOW! LOL


http://tinyurl.com/9yamv

These are great! DH and I love to do things like this! hee-hee Just to
mess with people. When the teller at the grocery store asks if there's
anything else they can do, I like asking for everything to go please.
They kinda do a double take and then chuckle. LOL Or we'll take one of
our stuffed bears and put him in the cart in the seat and put a toy or
something for the baby there and people will do a double take..it's too
funny. The other day we took the bear into the fast food with us and sat
him in the high chair at our table. LOL Some people look at you like '
are these people okay????' and then there's the folks who laugh and
comment on how cute it is. Ha-ha.. just never know what kinda response
we're going to get! That's the fun of it.


http://tinyurl.com/8jo8e

I've been just the opposite...my stomach has had to grow into my boobs!
Actually, late in my first trimester, just going into the second, they
exploded! I was hoping they'd wait a bit as I already had big boobs.
Hubby doesn't seem to mind though...and it has been fun using them to
play with my husband at night...*wink, wink*.


http://tinyurl.com/cboga

I TOTALLY understand feeling excited about the baby coming and yet
reluctant to be a SAHM. I'm 35 and have paid my own way in life since I
was 13, so it's been for the better half of my life that I've NEVER had
to depend on someone else. To top it off, I have my own business since I
was 18...super independent woman here! I was sooo afraid of giving that
up and going to depending on my husband for finances. It took quite a
while for me to be okay with the idea and a LOT of reassurance from my
husband that it was okay for me to depend on him. I planned on working
until the start of my 3rd trimester, but we got in a serious car
accident and I haven't been able to work since the end of week 12! One
good thing that has come out of the accident is that I can't work and am
relying on my husband, even though eventually we will be compensated for
the loss of income from my business. It's helped me see that things will
be okay and that my position in our family is just changing and it will
be okay.
Once youre baby comes, you'll be glad you're not working because from
anythng I've heard, the first 4-6 months are so exhausting that you
can't hardly keep your eyes open. Gee, I can't wait! lol ...I really
can't wait for the baby to get here!!


http://tinyurl.com/a65e6

I'm just coming up to my 3rd tri with our first child. Before we even
tried to get pregnant, we paid off all of our bills except mortgage,
which we're looking into refinancing to lower the payment. So all we
have is livng expenses. We don't eat out much (we treat ourselves to one
movie/dinner per month) or do any entertainment that costs $$ to keep
expenses down. Still, we are having to ask for help through programs
(WIC..). We make $100 too much annually to be accepted for food stamps,
until the baby is born, then we would be accepted. Obviously, we don't
make a lot of money, but we'd really like to have one of us be a stay at
home parent...since my husband makes more $$, it's better for him to
work. After the baby is born, I plan on doing at least one part time job
to help, I can do this at a time when DH can stay home. Does anyone have
any other ideas for ways of making it possible to stay home, whether
it's cutting costs or agencies that might help out? We're open to ideas....
Thanks!


http://tinyurl.com/dv5m2

Misssue - What if you were to ask him what is a good compromise, since
he needs it and you're way too exhausted. Throw it back on him to come
up with an idea. If you're open to ideas, let him know that. Then
there's the ol' reliable hand job thing that's quick, easy and doesn't
take too much time/energy....Snuggle up to him, give him a hand job and
ten minutes later he's satisfied and happy and you can roll over and go
to sleep...lol.






Both of these are outright lies... but even when they have told the truth
they have been despicable.  It is true my mother died recently.  The fact
that Elizabot is not only obsessive enough where she found this info so
quickly (or at all!) but then she opted to not only post it to CSMA but to
do so in such a repulsive way is a sign her actions are escalating.


If I hadn't caught you talking about sex with dead bodies on the day of
her funeral, I might not have brought it up at all. Why are you such a
sick freak, Snit?

I am truly saddened to see that you will support them as their trolling and
flaming escalates to such a level.

For more detailed information on Elizabot's actions see:
<http://snipurl.com/bots_obsession>.  Please note that my comments about her
are supported strongly by posts she has made to CSMA.


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"The debates I tend to have are over points that really are not
debatable..." -Snit
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