Re: Brothers-in-law-in-law

Amethyst Deceiver <spam@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> writes:

In article <phcc759f9eavl41etniu94a4bvff6r5aav@xxxxxxx>,
hayesmstw@xxxxxxxxxxx says...

On Sun, 2 Aug 2009 09:35:18 +0100, "Jonathan Morton"
<jonathan.mortonbutignorethispart@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

"Steve Hayes" <hayesmstw@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
news:g02a759lr99i6sf5mv4lk7l3s8eh11c2v6@xxxxxxxxxx

But I did refer to her mother's sister as my aunt, and my mother's
brother's
wife likewise.

I did the same. Again, if she's the mother of your cousins (in any) that's
good enough for me.

I'm not sure if we've ever mentioned here the use of "Uncle [or Aunt]
So-and-so" by children to refer to and address good friends of their
parents. I suspect that my generation (b. 1950s) was the last to use it, and
that it was a British (and possibly English) thing.

I've always regarded it as an Afrikaans thing, since it is (or was) customary
to address older males respectfully as "Oom" and females as "Tannie".

It passed over into English, where it is used disrespectfully - "Come on,
Uncle, move it" -- used of a car driver in front who is travelling slowly,
usually in the middle lane of a three-lane carriageway.

Ah, here in the UK, your Uncle is our Grandad.

I took great delight, a couple of weeks ago, when in a car following my
father, who has now become grandad to the family, in saying "come on
grandad" when he hesitated at a junction.
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