Casey - some perspective

This older article offers some perspective on today's
Casey Anthony ... good reading, provokative.

Casey Anthony: What Makes her Lie?
News Type: Event ? Tue Sep 30, 2008 4:17 PM EDTus-news, kidnapping,
caylee-anthony, casey-anthony, cindy-anthony, gonzalez,
pathological-liar, compulsive-liar by Clint Van Zandt
Casey Anthony
It?s now been almost three months since 2-year-old Caylee Anthony was
reported missing by her grandmother, Cindy. Caylee?s mother, 22-year-old
Casey, has told story after story, lie after lie, in apparent attempts
to explain how her daughter disappeared and why. Her first of many
believed lies named Zenaida Fernandez-Gonzalez, the single mother of six
children, as Caylee?s long-term baby sitter who, for some unknown
reason, absconded with Caylee, this while dragging her six children
along with her. One woman bearing the name of the now believed mythical
babysitter has been fired from her job and is suing the Anthony?s for
besmirching her name by suggesting she, someone who had never met the
Anthony?s, was Caylee?s kidnapper. Investigators have released hundreds
of pages of investigation, video and audio tapes and cel phone records
to substantiate their belief that one and only person is likely
responsible for Caylee?s missing person status. Casey Anthony.

What?s to Gain?

What does Casey have to gain by rolling one lie after another? Her
freedom is one. Although she has been charged with relative minor
offenses related to child neglect and bad checks, she has stood up to
months of questioning and the belief of most that she is somehow
responsible for her daughter?s likely demise, but the challenge for
investigators is to prove their beliefs, their theories, and put
together physical evidence that can prove to a jury that one; Caylee is
dead, and two, that Casey had anything to do with her suspected death.
How do you keep a secret? Do something by yourself and tell no one the
truth about what you did. Some people are just better at this than
others. And now there are rumors of a $2 million dollar made for TV
movie deal for the Anthony?s and their attorney. Should this be true, it
is but one more indictment of a society gone wild that lives vicariously
through sad stories such as this. Allowing the Anthony?s to make money
on the disappearance of Caylee just seems even too morbid for the
television, but as we?ve seen over the years, just about anything sells
on TV.

Friends of Casey question how she could have lived a life revolving
around booze, sex, and partying while allegedly conducting her own
one-month, one-person search for her missing daughter, someone Casey
referred to as ?the little snot head.? Many professional and pop
psychologists, as well as friends and family members of Casey have
suggested their collective belief that she is a pathological liar. What
is it that makes people believe this about Casey and what?s the
difference between a pathological liar and, as others have stated, a
compulsive liar?

Pathological Liars

A Pathological liar says whatever he or she wants to say with minimal
concern for the truth. After all, it is all about them anyway. Such a
person wants only what is best for them with little concern for others,
to include, in the extreme, their own children. They lie about the
little things, they constantly change their story while appearing to
believe every new version they roll out for public consumption. While
they may fool you at first, after all, we want to believe in others,
once you get to know such a person you learn not to believe anything he
or she says. You also learn never to expect this person to ?confess;?
it?s simply not in their emotional vocabulary to do so. Many see a
pathological liar as extremely cunning and totally self- centered,
exhibiting the traits associated with someone said to have a histrionic
personality disorder, one that includes attention seeking and
inappropriate seductiveness. A woman challenged with this disorder is
dramatic, enthusiastic and very flirtatious, even sexually provocative
while constantly needing the attention of others, especially men.
Because such a person may need constant stimulation and excitement, they
often place themselves in risky situations.

Compulsive Liars

A compulsive liar simply lies out of habit. Lying represents learned
behavior that has become so comfortable that the truth simply escapes or
evades such a person. The compulsive liar is not nearly as manipulative
as a pathological liar and may not be as narcissistic (it?s all about
them) as their pathological counterpart. The compulsive liar simply lies
out of habit, out of convenience without the psychological need to
always control and influence others. This person does not demand the
spotlight be constantly on them, they just want to get by as easy as
possible, but their form of and reason for lying can be just as
destructive to relationships as that done by pathological liars.

So where, if anywhere, does a person like Casey Anthony, as portrayed in
media reports, fit into these definitions, and how do you get such a
person to tell the truth? Casey?s behavior seems to go beyond that of
simply lying out of habit, i.e., she appears to lie to get her way and
to cover up those ?truths? she wishes others not to know. When you
consider that such a person is totally self-centered, i.e., they are the
sun and we, the planets, simply rotate around them, the only time such a
person tells the truth is when they are one: totally backed into a
corner with nowhere to run to and nowhere to hide, and two: when they
are convinced that the truth, or as much as they are willing to tell, is
to their and their lone benefit. As an FBI Agent, I?ve interviewed many
such individuals. These are long, multi-part interviews that can take
place over days, weeks and even months. The investigator needs to
construct a scenario that allows the subject to minimize what he has
done and/or to find a logical reason to have done what he did. You need
to show understanding for what the subject did, perhaps suggesting that
their action was not only reasonable, but appropriate in such a
situation.

Motive

Let?s consider missing Caylee Anthony. Based upon the information known
to the media, some have suggested the following scenario, based upon the
evidence to date, to explain the loss of young Caylee. Casey, a single
parent, allegedly did not want to give birth to Caylee, but was
persuaded to do so by her mother, Cindy. As a young mother, Casey?s
desire to live out a storybook like life involving men and fun was
severely hampered by having to care for Caylee. Most parents, especially
young, single mothers know how time consuming child care can be, and how
one can yearn for a life without the responsibilities of parenthood.
Casey?s social life, i.e., her dating life was tremendously limited by
her parental responsibilities. As an FBI profiler, I consulted on the
1994 Susan Smith case. It was Smith, then the 22-year-old mother of two
young sons (ages 3 and 14 months), who wanted a relationship with a man
who had no desire to take on her children. To solve her problem she had
to rid herself of her children so she rolled her car, with her two young
sons still strapped inside, into a local lake and then reported that her
car had been carjacked with her children inside. Even though local
authorities, during their search for the missing boys, indicated they
had checked all close by bodies of water, the FBI?s Behavioral Science
Unit felt that Smith had somehow ?disposed? of her children, probably in
some lake vs. by burning the car, etc. with the boys inside, this as the
latter method would not have been consistent with Smith?s profile.
Smith, who remains in prison today, suffered from a borderline
personality disorder, one of four such disorders to include
narcissistic, histrionic, and antisocial personality disorders.

Means

Investigators (and Casey?s family members) have indicated that the
family car used and abandoned by Casey had the smell of death, of human
decomposition when recovered by Casey?s parents. Investigators do not
believe this smell came from old pizza or two dead squirrels that
somehow found their way into Casey?s car. No, they believe that the
smell of death was consistent with evidence found in the car trunk of
human decomposition and human hairs believed to be identical to
Caylee?s. Next it was reported that evidence of chloroform was found in
the same car trunk. One expert has indicated that a practice common
among young parents is to put their child to sleep by doing like they
have seen done in the movies or read on the Internet, by soaking a cloth
in chloroform and putting it over the child?s nose or mouth, causing the
child to lose consciousness, thereby allowing the parent to leave the
child alone, knowing he or she will sleep while the parent parties all
night long. This practice is obviously dangerous as there is obviously
no way to accurately measure how much chloroform the child has injected.
Too little and the child awakens in the middle of the night without his
parent present. Too much, the child dies.

And the Ultimate Truth is?

Only one person really knows what happened to Caylee Anthony; the last
person who was with her and who, as most tend to believe, disposed of
her body. Whether that person is Casey Anthony or some yet to be
identified other, we just don?t know, or, in reality, we just can?t
prove at this time. Prove that Caylee is dead and prove that Casey or
someone else was directly responsible and you can take this case to
court. Should Casey have the answer, she need only keep it to herself to
frustrate the investigation and keep herself out of prison. Should
investigators eventually develop irrefutable evidence that links Casey
to her daughter?s death, then they may have some inroad to bargaining
with Casey. Susan Smith eventually confessed when her story fell apart,
but Casey has many stories, both old and new. If she is the sole owner
of the truth in this case, time will tell if she ever owns up to the
truth. All she needs to consider is what does she ultimately have to
gain as, after all, this is all about her?



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