Re: Depression Financial


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On Fri, 30 May 2008 05:49:42 GMT, "Joe_Z" <Joe_Z@xxxxxxxx> wrote:


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On Thu, 29 May 2008 12:47:03 -0700 (PDT), kittychats
<eileen_73@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:

Hiya Everyone-
Day 2 of the pity-pot for me...
I'm on an SSDI appeal, the slow process of applying for PERS and a
Private Disability Insurance that makes you wish you were dead.
We are financially struggling. I've worked so hard at maintaining good
credit and I'm simply devastated at watching it all slowly slip down
the toilet. This just adds nightmare to insult to injury.
Argh, I am so very depressed. .
kittychats

I'm going through a minor life realignment myself right now. A good
piece of advice is to contact your creditors prior to going into
default on any payments & letting them know what's up. They
appreciate the heads up & will usually extend you a little breathing
room if you've been a consistent payer in the past. Al most all of my
creditors have given me a 90-day breather and just stuck the extra
three months on the end of the loan without any fees or credit dings.

Everyone knows what stress does to someone and it's very hard to just
look the other way but at times one can do a little and just forget what's
eating them alive, I know it doesn't get much done but save brain cells
and
if there yours all the better, everyone here has my permission to forget
about what's bugging them for a couple of days, good luck and use your
time
wisely...Joe

While I agree in concept, if I forget about what's bugging me, it
usually ends up biting me on the ass in the long run. Personally I
find it better to deal with problems as they come up (beat them into
submission) as opposed to letting them grow to big that they beat me
into submission.

True, the money train waits for no one, least there pushing up daisies
from stress and if banks are involved your screwed for damn sure, sorry for
the extra stress :) ugh... so you have 5 minutes to unstress before
restressing, best luck...Joe

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"Before all else, be armed" -- Machiavelli


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