Re: Jillian-Joan-Nat-Mary - The obituary you wanted

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Juba,

You want the truth well, here it is. Will you do the same - be truthful
that is?

I became very ill and was operated on for an intestinal obstruction. I
survived, barely. My nephew and a friend were house sitting during this
time. The friend, seeing only asc-p on my computer and all caught up
"killed" me off as a joke using my DIL's name not thinking his little joke
all the way through. When he fessed up to my nephew who was protected for
awhile by his cousin, my son Chris, yes it was actually my son writing those
posts, I was far too sick and doped up to respond when asked to use my
computer. When this was all learned *** hit the fan BIG TIME in my family.
Bad enough to be dealing with my FIL's death. It had gone on long enough
that when I was well enough, I gave serious pause, and decided, wrongly
perhaps, that Jillian Humphrey did indeed "die" - I died a bit emotionally,
and as sick as I was I could easily have died in reality. This group had
partly to do with my "death" in the support I needed so badly when I wrote
those so long and boring posts about my FIL and not understanding why he was
choosing to die. It didn't help that 2 people here had quite a chuckle over
that. One did eventually apologize, as did I when my grief overflowed into
a horrendous post.

EVERY single thing I have ever said about my health is true. I would never
wish anyone, not anyone, fecal incontinence. Tell Rack here in Ohio we
womenfolk don't get duded up to go to the mall.THAT trip was when I had the
first full accident, till then the panty liner was helping. Rack'd rather
you stay cooped up at home if infirmed, I guess. If he would read an entire
post instead of line by line he would understand I never called him a bigot.
I referred to the child's mother's reaction as bigoted. Sue "should" back
me up on this, but I never compared him to Hitler either. There was a
poster at the time named "joe" who both Sue and I just could not make heads
or tails of his writings. He wrote that Rack was a worthless piece of ***
for a human being and shouldn't be here. Because of "joe's" simpleness, I
used real understandable pieces of human *** and specifically said "RJ
doesn't even come close". I closed the post by saying RJ had every right to
be in asc-p as everyone else. Go find it and read it, you'll see I am
telling the truth.

This going real life is crap and you all should be ashamed of yourselves. I
wrote a smartass post about my job, followed by a carefully explained post
concerning my job. Rack saw fit to take the smartass post, but not the
actual one with the real explanation and put it in alt.hard.drugs. Two
juveniles there saw fit to look me up and I did indeed get real life
threats, messages that described my house, the position changes of the truck
out front, etc. Sound familiar Rack? Seems you wrote several times about
something like that happening to you. Now the juveniles were caught and
fessed up. Rack, you did have some culpability since they were juveniles,
but hell, this is just bull*** internet word crap. Had something really
happened, had they carried some of their threats out, you'd be singing a
different tune now.

Juba, there, respect, I used your nym and not your name. Maybe you could
show a little to your fellow man in this group. Long before I said you said
something in an email I didn't like, you told me you 86'd me cause I had
said in an e-mail to another that "LC wasn't a bad guy". Sharing e-mail
info, I thought you frowned on that. Now LC is giving you back what you
have done to others, and I have witnessed you in action first hand, I don't
need others telling the tales. He "IS" a good guy. He was the first to
write and welcome me. He came after Jillian passed. He NEVER ONCE in
e-mail said anything about anyone in this group. Our few e-mails concerned
us and our illnesses. He gave me support. I never betrayed you. I never
ever asked you for personal information. Oh, I did ask you to please get
Rack off my back, you quickly shot back that he wasn't your friend - I made
the mistake of referring to him as such. Much later, after the debacle, you
let me know publicly you asked 2 others to ask him to lay off me. Yet you
say you did so much for me, what was it you did? Getting your 2 friends to
have Rack lay off didn't work, did it? So why in the world would you think
that anything I would say to anyone about getting off your back would be of
any use?

You throw around the word "criminal" when you yourself have engaged in
criminal activity. Come on now, be truthful, no more inaccuracies.

A few at the time knew the truth. Those who cared about me. I opted to
come back as "Nat". My actual name IS Joan Humphrey, however, before you
showed up, a Jo Strandberg posted here often and she used Jo, Joan and
Joani, so I switched to Jillian, my middle name to avoid confusion and even
posted so at the time.

When the situation happened with my former neighbor (the family has moved) I
could have cared less that anyone with a pea for a brain could look up the
info and find out who I was - for me, the importance of getting the word out
about my missing neighbor and anything I could do to help the family far
outweighed my being "outed" in a dumb usenet group. When my google and
hotmail accounts were hacked, and they were, I have the SLR (Standard Log-in
Reports) to prove it "Nat" died that day in November, until today and there
will be no replies to this. I do not know who or why I was hacked, but
there are things I do know. "Nat" died partly on my attorney's direction -
yes I have one. He and my kid, the lawyer who set me up with him when this
happened, will be less than happy that I am posting this.

I have lurked, not often, as I am very ill. Very ill. I have longed to
correct inaccuracies. You people throw "lie" around like a meatball when
all it really is inaccuracies and faulty memories. I was here before you,
before Codeee, before Rack. Although I had not much interaction with her, I
remember when Ruada was a well respected member of this group before y'all
decided to gang up on her. I know the history. I was here. The funny thing
about the so called FAQs is that not once have I ever seen any one ask any
of these so called frequently asked questions actually asked. No one cares.

Get back to support. It's what is done best here, not these stupid flames.
It drives people to do stupid things, and I admit I did a stupid thing.
There are a number of people who mean something to me here, and yes LC is
one. HE never tried to tell me what to do. HE supported me when life was
handing me the *** sandwich. Should the Real Life stuff stop - ABSOLUTELY,
and that goes to everyone. Quit insulting each other, care about chronic
pain. LC ain't the bad guy - anyone who engages in this *** is.

My true swan song. Juba, you got the other one wrong. You know the one
dated last June, my so called farewell, that was really a "I won't be around
as much cause I am doing better" Thing is, the thing with the neighbor
began July 4th - your timing was off. I was here thru November.

But Nat is dead now too and left the building. For some of you that will
make your day. You can deal with that when the time comes for reconciling
your life, and it comes for all of us.

So, your obituary and your truth. Now how about your telling the truth?
You know, the hard stuff, not avoiding the difficult questions.

Happy now? Rhetorical. There will be no response back from me ever. So
fire away, but do give some thought to actually telling the truth. You asked
me to and I did, now I'm asking you to do so, AND to make apologies where
necessary. I very sorrowfully apologize to any I may have hurt by my
actions.

"Juba" <juba@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
news:2p04k.fk9.17.5@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ <Nobody@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message:
Lwhkg.14343$3B.11834@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx,

Top posted and out of lurking for a sec...

Hey Nat!! How ARE you??? Long time no seeee!! :) Email me!! I
saw your other post in asap... I asked there, but I'll ask here
too...
What does MB stand for??


"Mary Elizabeth" <Marysinpain@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
news:TdIjg.43766$YI5.17644@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Bwhahahahahahahahahaha

Jillian (aka Joan Humphrey) = Nat = Mary Elizabeth.

I already knew this because Nat revealed her real identity when she talked
about her next door neighbor who went missing. It was easy enough to find
and compare Joan Humphrey's address and the neighbor's address. And tying
"Mary Elizabeth" to Nat was child's play.

But now (thanks to Laurie) her secret is out in the open. She thought she
had everyone fooled, but she was wrong.

She was behaving herself as Mary Elizabeth so that's all to her credit,
but I do have a problem with all of her outrageous lies and deceptions, as
Jillian and Nat, as well as her numerous attempts to manipulate me and
enlist me to help her get Jite off her back. And after I did so much to
help her, she later turned on me and lied about what what I said to her in
private.

And it should be noted that Jite was right about her all along. She faked
her own death. She came back here as "Chris" and stayed for quite a while
to argue with people. Later she comes back as "Nat" and makes up a bunch
of lies about shitting on herself at the mall, and then whines about being
picked on when she wasn't believed.

And who was only too happy to use her again and again to further their own
vendettas? The stalkers and their enablers.

Jillian-Joan-Nat-Mary, if you want to be left alone all you have to do is
admit the truth. Don't try to lie about it now. I have no problem with you
staying, as long as you don't play any more games and you stay out of the
fighting. If you continue to lie, Jite will have a field day with you.

--
Juba
www.masterjuba.com



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