Re: the pain of reading alt.support.chronic-pain






"Tia" <Tia@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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> "pengie" <no.spam@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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> > Shame on you people. You all act as if you are playing children's
games.
> > This newsgroup was set up for the support for those in pain. It was
meant
> > to help those with question about pain. It was meant to be a place
where
> > like minded individuals can share their experiences and give others the
> > extra shoulder needed to bare the weight of a chronic condition that
> > leaves us feeling like we are in a constant downward spiral. I have
> > lurked in this group for years and have found many posts to be helpful.
> > Post have helped me find answers to the questions about pain and ways to
> > treat it. The posts have also shown me that I am not alone in the world
> > with my pain. Every now and then, war breaks out in this support group.
> > The two sides play their dirty tactics in public for all of us to see.
> > One side will make a remark designed to enrage the other side and the
rest
> > of us must deal with weeks of flame wars. We all came here for support.
> > No one cares about the childish spat. Even if one side starts to move in
a
> > direction in an attempt to move beyond such childish games, the other
side
> > can not leave well enough alone and makes every attempt to draw side 1
> > back into the flame war. There are a few that have nothing intelligent
to
> > say except for negative comments that only make them look unintelligent
> > and hardly makes their case more valid. Instead it makes them look
> > childish with no real argument. Also present are fellow members of this
> > support group who see it fit to be there to fan the fire with smug
> > comments. These members do not take sides but are only there to see that
> > the war continues so that they might find some morsel of pleasure in
their
> > pathetic lives. The rest of the group should ignore both factions. By
> > ignoring them, they might realize that the world doesn't revolve around
> > them and their comments. One reason these people are involved in these
> > petty games is because they have no other source where they can be the
> > center of attention. When they realize that they are no longer the
center
> > of attention, they might decide to final put to rest this silly charade.
> > Of course, both sides will try to use this post to justify their means,
> > but that again will only be part of their plan to be the center of
> > attention and to trap this group in their game. Both sides have gone to
> > the extent of using illegal activities to hurt the others. Why is it
> > necessary to cause more pain and stress to those who already have to
> > suffer? Both sides have used tactics to recruit others into their world
of
> > low self-esteem. When will these factions realize that the rest of the
> > group neither cares nor wants anything to do with this squabble? My
advice
> > to the sufferers of these constant attacks from these two factions is to
> > set up a kill file so that the group will be rid of these children of
> > chaos and support can once again be found in a group where it is needed
> > the most. Thank you,CG
>
>
> For what's it worth I agree with you 100%.
> When I first came in here I deleted all the posts they were so mean!
> It's a shame.
>
> T~
>
>

....than why didn't you delete mine ???

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