Re: Aboyne Doll's outfit done

BEI Design wrote:
We may come to that eventually, too. Right now, and while I'm
still able, using the special china (my mother-in-law's), crystal (my mother's), and flatware (my silver anniversary sterling), are all major parts of the celebration. Everyone contributes to the meal, but the oyster stew is always the hostess' (my) contribution. We have made a few minor changes, like eliminating the cheese and bread course, but for the most part, each part of the Christmas Eve celebration is associated with very fond memories and we are unwilling to part with them. And I don't mind the work, just miss the helper. ;-}

Beverly



Dear Beverly,
I understand how you feel about using your special things.
It really bothers me that I will have to use disposables this year when my family comes on the 30th. There is just no way I can ask DH to do all that extra work this year. I've got him run ragged as it is.
The children will each bring part of the meal. DH and I have the job of being Emperor and Empress. If I was able, all my china and crystal would be on the table. That's just the way it is. I have always felt that if I can't use those nice things with my family I might as well not have them.
This year,I'm just glad to have my family with me.
Juno
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