How do Muslims treat the elderly?



How do Muslims treat the elderly?

In the Islamic world there are no old people's homes. The strain of
caring for one's parents in this most difficult time of their lives is
considered an honor and blessing, and an opportunity for great
spiritual growth. God asks that we not only pray for our parents, but
act with limitless compassion, remembering that when we were helpless
children they preferred us to themselves. Mothers are particularly
honored: the Prophet taught that 'Paradise lies at the feet of
mothers'. When they reach old age, Muslim parents are treated
mercifully, with the same kindness and selflessness.

In Islam, serving one's parents is a duty second only to prayer, and
it is their right to expect it. It is considered despicable to express
any irritation when, through no fault of their own, the old become
difficult.

The Quran says: 'Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but
Him, and be kind to parents. If either or both of them reach old age
with you, do not say 'uff to them or chide them, but speak to them in
terms of honor and kindness. Treat them with humility, and say, 'My
Lord! Have mercy on them, for they did care for me when I was little'.
(17:23-4)

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