Rightwingers want rape victims to go ahead, be pregnant, give birth -- real compassion



In the cold, early morning hours of January 1, 1974, a good friend,
then a 19-year-old college student, was driving home alone from a New
Year's Eve party. Her Volkswagen was forced off the road. She was
dragged kicking and screaming into the van of a man who had decided to
kidnap and rape her. My friend spent the hours immediately after her
brutal violation convincing the man not to kill her.

"A van appeared out of nowhere attempting to run me off the road. I
was panic-stricken. I pulled into a parking lot where two men were
preparing morning papers for delivery and ran from my car trying to
reach them. My attacker caught me from behind and dragged me into his
van. I was so close to the paper men I could almost touch them. I
screamed for them to help me. The man who would rape me shouted to
them that I was his girlfriend and that we were having a fight.
Apparently that was okay with the paper men."

"He drove to an isolated area in a nearby town, then ordered me to
take off my clothes and get in the back of the van. I fought him until
he punched me. I remembered hearing once that the best way to survive
a violent sexual assault was to give in, so I did. The guilt of doing
so haunted me for years."

The Wisconsin State Senate overwhelmingly passed the "Compassionate
Care for Rape Victims," a bill that requires hospitals providing
emergency services to inform a rape victim of her right to receive
Plan B emergency contraception (high-dosage birth control pills
administered within 72 hours of intercourse) and to immediately
provide it upon her request.

The bill was referred to the Assembly Judiciary and Ethics Committee,
where it was amended by the committee chair, Rep. Mark Gundrum, a
dogmatic Roman Catholic who was awarded the 1999 Legislator of the
Year Award by Pro-Life Wisconsin, an anti-contraceptives/anti-choice
organization opposed to the Compassionate Care for Rape Victims bill.

The amendment was a "conscience clause" allowing healthcare providers
to opt out of informing a rape victim about the Plan B emergency
contraception option because of religious or moral beliefs. The
amendment was passed by a 6-4 party line vote in the Republican
controlled committee.

Rep. Gundrum included the amendment because he believes there were
some First Amendment issues with the bill, " freedom of speech and
freedom of religion . . . forcing people to say things they don't
mean . . . that may be against their religious beliefs."

This amendment becomes a serious problem in the first 72 hours of a
rape crisis, especially in rural areas with small medical clinics, if
one or more of the healthcare providers have religious convictions
against informing a victim of rape that she has an option that will
safely and effectively prevent her from becoming pregnant with her
assailant's child. One-third of reproductive age women remain unaware
of emergency contraception.

The Wisconsin compassionate care law has nothing to do with freedom of
speech or freedom of religion and everything to do with appropriate,
responsible, legal health care . . . not to mention basic humanity.

"After he raped me, he said he didn't know what to do with me. He said
that he could kill me and I thought he would. There were shotgun
shells strewn across the dashboard and he said he had a shotgun."

"In the days and weeks following the rape I did not sleep, I could not
eat, and I was afraid to be out after dark. My entire life changed.
There simply are no words to describe the shame and guilt that became
so much a part of my life. I remember soaking in the tub for what
seemed like hours, night after night, attempting to cleanse myself of
the filth of the rape."

In 2004 there were 1,134 forcible rapes-one every 7 hours and 43
minutes-reported in Wisconsin. One in four of those victims said they
feared death or serious injury.

Nationally, over 300,000 forcible rapes are reported each year. Twenty-
five thousand of these women will become pregnant. If these victims
have timely access to Plan B emergency contraception, an estimated
22,000 pregnancies-almost 90 percent-could be prevented.

A 1996 study published in the American Journal of Obstetrics and
Gynecology revealed that 50 percent of rape-related pregnancies end in
abortion. Plan B would prevent these abortions.

"I was so young and so naïve that it didn't immediately occur to me I
could be pregnant. I was a virgin the morning I was raped. I was not
using birth control. Plan B emergency contraception was not an option
33 years ago. The only options at the time were to have had an
abortion or to carry to term and give birth to the child of the man
who had kidnapped and raped and threatened to kill me. I became
possessed by this decision, wondering if I would see this man's face
in the child. And if I chose to have his child, could I love it the
way a child needs to be loved . . . unconditionally. Would I ever
heal? In the end, I decided I could not have an abortion. I would have
chosen Plan B, however."

There is federal legislation, the "Compassionate Assistance for Rape
Emergencies Act," in both houses of Congress that will require
hospitals receiving federal funds through the Medicare and Medicaid
programs to provide Plan B emergency contraception to rape victims.

One can safely assume that right-wing Christian organizations such as
"Focus on the Family" and "Concerned Women of America" will be putting
their considerable political clout into melting the spine of any
politician with the slightest inclination to support the federal CARE
Act. Like Wisconsin's compassionate care law, it will no doubt get
locked up in committee, eviscerated and forgotten about. This is,
after all, not the first attempt at passing such federal legislation.

Only nine states have statutes providing victims of rape with timely
access to Plan B emergency contraception. Considering the current
fragile state of Roe v. Wade, strong state and federal compassionate
care laws may be a rape victim's only hope of having her right to
choose the rest of her life supercede the rapist's "right" to
impregnate her. If the likes of Rep. Gundrum or Pro-Life Wisconsin or
Focus on the Family prevail, the man who chooses to rape will win
hands down.

"Though many years have passed and I consider myself healed from the
rape, there are still times I look at my four children and thank God
I've never had to explain to one of them that their father was a
rapist. I also thank God I am not reminded of that man and of that
cold New Year's morning whenever I look at them but, instead, know
that each one of my children was conceived by choice, and in love, and
were fathered by a most wonderful man."


http://www.progressivedailybeacon.com/more.php?page=opinion&id=1689

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