Re: Update Archer^Jo

2006-01-31, Responding to Archer...
> Hi Fmily,
>
> It appears I'm now having major emotional reaction to the 12/2 fire.
> I've dealt well with all the trades that have been here (roofers,
> electricians, plumbers, drywallers, painters) starting 1/9. Have had
> what initially felt like a welcome breather with no one here yesterday.
>
> Instead I just suddenly feel overwhelmed and discouraged. This doesn't
> feel like my home anymore. Having gone through fixing this place up
> starting last February, it was very hard but joyful. Now it seems
> patched and there is no joy anymore.

[...]
> This doesn't feel like home.

[...]
> Thanks for reading my unintended long bull***.
>
> O's 'n X's, Jo

Its no surprise that this has caught up with you. Its
unavoidable, and adopting a denial attitude would have only
made it worse IMO.

You appear to be instinctively doing "the right thing" and
I'm sure that once the downside of realising just what has
happened (past) and dealt with what is happening now, you'll
find the upside coming back.

You need to realise how well you're handling this, and enjoy
giving youself some credit here y'know. :)



P.S. It ain't BS, its important stuff!

Mike@xxxx
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