Re: A troll free zone- of late

oh, i remember lol at one point jane and i were accused of being the same
person even. we both were prolific writers back themLOL

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lynn
"Carol J" <haveaniceday@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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> lol You made me laugh, Janey:-) I've lurked on/off in this group for
> years, I don't ever remember you being that prolific:-) BUT as always you
> make some valid points............:-)
>
> carol j
>
>
> Janey Pooh wrote:
> > acoftil wrote:
> >> Paranoia abounds right now.
> >>
> >> IMNSHO, Matt is just as he portrays himself. I don't understand why
> >> people don't give others a better chance. Most of us have been
> >> labeled a shill, troll, spammer. How did that make you feel? Why
> >> would you just guess without any real information that a new person
> >> is automatically a troll.
> >
> > I was given a REALLY hard time when I first found AMF eight years ago.
> > I was SO excited that I'd found people "like me" - people who knew
> > what
> > it was like to live with fibromyalgia. And it gave me something to do
> > with my empty days. So I posted, and posted, and posted. I was a
> > little obsessed with it for a while. I came back and checked for new
> > messages all day long - and posted back to all of them. And I posted
> > TONS of my own.
> >
> > I was *extremely* prolific.
> >
> > Some people hated that. They said I was asking questions about stuff
> > everyone should already know, and told me I should look it up. So I
> > started learning to surf and I looked up *everything* and shared it
> > all. Then people told me I was trying to dominate the group and
> > answer
> > all the questions before anyone else had a chance to respond. I felt
> > like I couldn't win for trying.
> >
> > Some people mistrusted my motives for being here in the first place.
> > All of that hurt my feelings and made me a little nuts. My hubby told
> > me I wasn't allowed to come here anymore, cuz it upset me so much. I
> > told him I'd learn to not let it upset me, to take it for what it is -
> > anonymous strangers with only one thing in common - PAIN!
> >
> > I settled in, made friends, hung out, tried not to let the flame wars
> > bug me so much, and learned TONS about fibromyalgia and lots of other
> > things. Over time, I made DEAR friends with a few people and met them
> > in real life. Now this group is like a second home for me, one I can
> > visit when I choose and know I'll be welcomed and supported in.
> >
> > It takes time, patience and an ability to hang back and get to know
> > your audience to really, REALLY fit in on a group like this. I think
> > if a newbie has questions they should ask them, no matter HOW simple
> > the answer is to those who've been around a long time. They haven't.
> > But I think newbies would be well served to ask several questions in
> > one post, after identifying and telling a bit about themselves.
> >
> > And if you keep getting answers like, "Ask your doctor," it's because
> > we're not doctors and we don't know the answers. We're all different
> > and EVERYTHING - medications, diet, lifestyle, etc - is different for
> > all of us. There is no concensus so we can't give you an answer.
> >
> > 'Kay now, everybody chill and let's try to make this a FUN and
> > informative place to visit. 'Kay?
> >
> > Take GOOD Care,
> >
> > Jane
>
>


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