Update on Archer Jo

Hi FMily,

I've peeked into AMF a couple of times mostly having to mark 'all read'.

I'm just posting an update of all that is/is not happening here
regarding repairs, cleaning, as usual useless husband, etc. Bottom
line: cleaning crew might be here tomorrow (2 weeks after fire) so my
flare is flaring having tried to clean by myself and repairs might start
January 2nd.

Allstate sucks. Have had it since 1978 and never had a claim till now.
They've screwed up, lied and stonewalled me and contractor at every
possible turn and it's not over yet. If repairs start on January 2nd
they might be over by March 2nd, it's a two month timeline.

The person I never should have married:
- does nothing to help, can't handle an adjusters phone call, has
dumped all this on me
- Ford offered work this week for afternoon shift meaning a full
paycheck *or* take a layoff meaning 75% approx pay. We need the damn
money but w/o consulting me just took the layoff which also means he has
been here every day doing *nothing* unless it's to yell, which scares
kitties, at me about nothing. I cope mostly by ignoring him or
laughing. At this point there is no point in allowing his BS to further
upset my lightness of being!!

I'm ok, kitties are calming down (just in time to get upset when lots of
people and noise start up). I've called Chris, my dear friend who
discovered the fire saving us and preventing the whole house from
burning to the ground, and he will be here tomorrow to move LR furniture
around then bring my bed to the LR and dresser to my office so all will
be on first floor.

I need to sleep in my bed and for almost two weeks have braved sleeping
in my room without drywall and with no roof insulation it is *cold*.

So tired and have so much to do since if I don't stay organized and on
top of all the damn details nothing will get done and of course there's
just trying to do regular living stuff and a bare minimum of holiday
stuff.

Overall my mood is grateful and joyful and I'm handling the irritants
using ball busting then killing with kindness!

Dealing with the pain barely
Organized regardless of fibrofog
Thanking FMily for your support
Happy Holidays,
Jo
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