Re: random thoughts - random bitches
- From: "Cripple" <duh@xxxxxxx>
- Date: Wed, 19 Oct 2005 17:23:40 -0700
Deb,
This time I am sure that I understand exactly what you are saying.
I think we do understand each other very well
Ed
"dingalingdeb" <wilson_d@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
news:tyy5f.27023$yS6.4052@xxxxxxxxxxx
> Yup, Cindy, it's really difficult being your own worst enemy - after
> lifting/cleaning/scrubbing/vacuuming/pushing a van etc. a couple of weeks
> after third abdominal surgery in July and developing a herina. I told
> myself that I would never do that again, that I was a fool for doing the
> things I did and what the heck was I thinking, worrying about stupid stuff
> like that and hurting myself and causing more problems by doing things
that
> didn't amount to a hill of beans in the importance department when it came
> to setting myself up for more surgery...etc. so then I decided that NO WAY
> was I going to lift/push, etc. no matter what - when I saw my dr. on Mon.
> she said due to hernia and bursitis/tendonitis in shoulder, NO lifting,
> vacuuming, etc. So what do I do? yesterday I wanted to load the
dishwasher,
> so I hauled it over to the sink - saw that the floor under where it was,
> needed to be vacuumed - hauled out the vacuum cleaner and vacuumed the
> kitchen then noticed the mud on porch carpet - oh well, may as well vacuum
> that up.... this was after I'd cleaned the bathroom and thought 'well, no
> harm done to get on hands and knees and wash the floor here' I dunno, I
have
> to wonder if I ever 'can' learn and also have to tell myself that because
I
> just can't seem to get it into my thick skull, I guess I deserve all the
> pain and problems that I cause myself. Dunno what it is that makes us this
> way; like my sis said recently, that I (with the fm & all the other stuff)
> will push myself way harder and beyond what a 'normal' person would ever
> do - and she's right. Man! I hate (in some ways) being a type A; I'd be
> better off as a type C or D:-)
>
> dingaling deb
>
> The face of a child can say it all, especially the mouth part of the
face.
> Jack Handey
>
> "Cindy in Pa" <cnospamleigh1@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
> news:TrKdnSkcof-38cneRVn-rA@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > This is too funny...I all but have tears running down my face from
> > laughing...
> >
> > I don't know if I am laughing at your indignation or the fact that I can
> > hardly move and am in enormous pain from vacuuming 2 rooms in my
> > house...and
> > you want to paint a whole house!...oops I am off into peels of laughter
> > again...
> >
> > Thanks...I needed this big time...I was feeling really sorry for myself
a
> > few minutes ago!!
> >
> > Good Luck on your project....
> > Cindy in Pa
> >
> > "Cripple" <duh@xxxxxxx> wrote in message
> > news:I1P4f.11350$MN6.2448@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> >> Come the end of December, my wife and I will be married 25 years.
> >> Marriage is not a word. Marriage is a sentence.
> >> Convicted killers get out sooner than that.
> >>
> >> I have nothing to do the rest of my life.
> >> why the hell can I not paint the outside of my own house?
> >> I just told her that I decided to paint the house myself, rather than
> >> hire
> > a
> >> painter.
> >> She replied, "NO".
> >> Screw her, its my house also. I know how to operate an airless sprayer
> >> or
> >> can learn in an hour.
> >> I already own all the tools necessary, All it will cost me is Paint.
> >>
> >> Who the hell is she to tell me "NO". I am the own that has to live
with
> > the
> >> consequences. She is already tired of hearing I hurt so she can
continue
> > to
> >> not listen to me.
> >>
> >> There is no one alive that can do a better job than I can, Its my
house,
> > I
> >> make sure that it is done correctly the first time. I have never had a
> > call
> >> back because I did not construct or repair anything here properly.
> >> Everything I do is done right the first time.
> >> Who the hell, does she think she is.
> >>
> >> I have the entire winter ahead of me with great temperatures to perform
> > the
> >> job.
> >>
> >> No one else in this world will feel any pain if I do this job, but me.
> >> If
> > I
> >> am willing to do this, then I am the final authority. What the hell
can
> > she
> >> do, call the pain police.
> >> And it can not hurt that much more than I already do, all the pain
meds
> > do
> >> is impede withdrawal symptoms.
> >>
> >> Why the hell does she not just ask for a divorce if she is so unhappy.
> >> Hmmm, I have not yet received my inheritance.
> >> But she knows that inheritance is not considered community property.
> >> She would be so much happier if she were single again. The kids are
> >> grown
> >> and there will not be any psychological damage.
> >> I have no future, all I am is an anchor around her neck.
> >> She can have everything, the house and the entire portfolio, but she
> > would,
> >> for some reason known only to herself and god, rather stay here just to
> > tell
> >> me "NO"
> >>
> >>
> >
> >
>
>
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