Re: random thoughts - random bitches

Yup, Cindy, it's really difficult being your own worst enemy - after
lifting/cleaning/scrubbing/vacuuming/pushing a van etc. a couple of weeks
after third abdominal surgery in July and developing a herina. I told
myself that I would never do that again, that I was a fool for doing the
things I did and what the heck was I thinking, worrying about stupid stuff
like that and hurting myself and causing more problems by doing things that
didn't amount to a hill of beans in the importance department when it came
to setting myself up for more surgery...etc. so then I decided that NO WAY
was I going to lift/push, etc. no matter what - when I saw my dr. on Mon.
she said due to hernia and bursitis/tendonitis in shoulder, NO lifting,
vacuuming, etc. So what do I do? yesterday I wanted to load the dishwasher,
so I hauled it over to the sink - saw that the floor under where it was,
needed to be vacuumed - hauled out the vacuum cleaner and vacuumed the
kitchen then noticed the mud on porch carpet - oh well, may as well vacuum
that up.... this was after I'd cleaned the bathroom and thought 'well, no
harm done to get on hands and knees and wash the floor here' I dunno, I have
to wonder if I ever 'can' learn and also have to tell myself that because I
just can't seem to get it into my thick skull, I guess I deserve all the
pain and problems that I cause myself. Dunno what it is that makes us this
way; like my sis said recently, that I (with the fm & all the other stuff)
will push myself way harder and beyond what a 'normal' person would ever
do - and she's right. Man! I hate (in some ways) being a type A; I'd be
better off as a type C or D:-)

dingaling deb

The face of a child can say it all, especially the mouth part of the face.
Jack Handey

"Cindy in Pa" <cnospamleigh1@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
news:TrKdnSkcof-38cneRVn-rA@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> This is too funny...I all but have tears running down my face from
> laughing...
>
> I don't know if I am laughing at your indignation or the fact that I can
> hardly move and am in enormous pain from vacuuming 2 rooms in my
> house...and
> you want to paint a whole house!...oops I am off into peels of laughter
> again...
>
> Thanks...I needed this big time...I was feeling really sorry for myself a
> few minutes ago!!
>
> Good Luck on your project....
> Cindy in Pa
>
> "Cripple" <duh@xxxxxxx> wrote in message
> news:I1P4f.11350$MN6.2448@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
>> Come the end of December, my wife and I will be married 25 years.
>> Marriage is not a word. Marriage is a sentence.
>> Convicted killers get out sooner than that.
>>
>> I have nothing to do the rest of my life.
>> why the hell can I not paint the outside of my own house?
>> I just told her that I decided to paint the house myself, rather than
>> hire
> a
>> painter.
>> She replied, "NO".
>> Screw her, its my house also. I know how to operate an airless sprayer
>> or
>> can learn in an hour.
>> I already own all the tools necessary, All it will cost me is Paint.
>>
>> Who the hell is she to tell me "NO". I am the own that has to live with
> the
>> consequences. She is already tired of hearing I hurt so she can continue
> to
>> not listen to me.
>>
>> There is no one alive that can do a better job than I can, Its my house,
> I
>> make sure that it is done correctly the first time. I have never had a
> call
>> back because I did not construct or repair anything here properly.
>> Everything I do is done right the first time.
>> Who the hell, does she think she is.
>>
>> I have the entire winter ahead of me with great temperatures to perform
> the
>> job.
>>
>> No one else in this world will feel any pain if I do this job, but me.
>> If
> I
>> am willing to do this, then I am the final authority. What the hell can
> she
>> do, call the pain police.
>> And it can not hurt that much more than I already do, all the pain meds
> do
>> is impede withdrawal symptoms.
>>
>> Why the hell does she not just ask for a divorce if she is so unhappy.
>> Hmmm, I have not yet received my inheritance.
>> But she knows that inheritance is not considered community property.
>> She would be so much happier if she were single again. The kids are
>> grown
>> and there will not be any psychological damage.
>> I have no future, all I am is an anchor around her neck.
>> She can have everything, the house and the entire portfolio, but she
> would,
>> for some reason known only to herself and god, rather stay here just to
> tell
>> me "NO"
>>
>>
>
>


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