Re: Character information from Jo

On Oct 22, 9:45 pm, Ron Hunter <rphun...@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Kenny wrote:
"Ron Hunter" <rphun...@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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Sigh. A 'gay' person can have sex ONLY with a person of the same gender.

Uh, no. Before a friend of mine "came out of the closet" (so to speak), he
was married, and before he got married, he had a couple of girlfriends too.
And I know that they did the horizontal shuffle all the time.

A heterosexual person can have sex (to orgasm) ONLY with a person of the
opposite gender.

Uh, no. As above, his now ex-wife thought he was awsome in bed.

Unfortunately, most people misuse the words, or don't understand the
limitations of the definitions. May gay men date women regularly, enjoy
their company, and have lasting relationships (just not sexual ones). If
the relationships become sexual, then the person is NOT homosexual, but
'bisexual'. I suspect that most people are really bisexual, but by
preference, custom, tradition, and personal choice, restrict themselves to
sex with only one gender.

I disagree. Lots of gay people date and get married to people of the
opposite sex for lots of different reasons. However, when a gay person
finally accepts that they are gay, often they never date a person from the
opposite sex again.

Kenny

You confuse gender confusion with sexuality. When a person is unsure of
his feelings, then he may experiment before finding his true feelings.
However, a person who can find satisfaction (sexually) with either sex,
even if he prefers one over the other, is NOT a homosexual, but a bisexual.
There are, also, people for whom sex just isn't a significant
motivation, and they are asexual. This, at least, we know isn't
genetic. Grin.

If you mean that we know that asexuality isn't genetic just because
asexuals are not motivated to have their own children, I think that
you must be mistaken. In a social animal, there may be useful social
roles that exclude individual reproductive activity, but that serve
the survival (or even the reproduction) of the group as a whole. Where
such roles continue to be useful for many generations, there could be
a genetic predisposition for the species to have some offspring that
are suited to such nonreproductive roles.

--
Alex Clark

Odd mare vomit roll (an anagram rejected by Tom Riddle)

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